Is it fine to change your personality for a man?

[sheenagwapa]

the girl is mature but can act childish and carefree at times at home. she also talk gay and vain at times like Kim Kardashian. she has that side of her personality but the guy likes someone who is mire of the royal family type like Kate and Meghan, acts mature, prim & proper and probably flirtywhen in bars. the girl is leaninh more towardw innocence aura, friendly and just girl next door type. innocent aura does not mean she's gonna be like a dead fish in bed. she's actually the participative type and enjoys sex, willing to learn, willing to please because she loves hard but she isn't the seductive, flirty, sultry bed expert goddesses

if a man doesn't like you for who you are at the present moment and who just wanna change yoy is he worth it meaninh will i be happy with him or shoulf i just try to change myself and see if he will eventually be fond of me?

[Amondee]

There are several questions in there. I would say if you feel ok with changing your personality for a man then why not but I am pretty convinced you will be miserable & unhappy long-term as changing personality is extremely hard (if possible) and it will require you to fake it until maybe you change (big emphasis on maybe). And then if you manage to change, it doesn't automatically mean he will suddenly fall in love with you either. So you may do all this for nothing.

"If a man doesn't like you for who you are at the present moment and who just wanna change you, is he worth it?" For the majority of women, I'd say the answer to this is probably no, he is not worth it because that means he doesn't like you. I hope you will come to realize that you are worth being loved as you are and you absolutely don't need to change for a man to love you.

Having said that maybe you'll realize your worth by giving it a go as seeing how it makes you feel? But I don't think this is going to be the outcome you want it to be unfortunately... People who want to change others are not nice partners, I don't think they'd be satisfied even with Kate or Meghan.

[Bethany22]

If he is deliberately trying to change you, then he may always be finding fault with you forever on after you make the initial changes he wants. It's not fun walking around eggshells with someone like that. But if it's you who wants to change, whereby you have an opportunity to practice maturity, then there's nothing wrong with that, and you can have fun watching him be wrapped around your little finger because you're his dream girl. But even in that situation where you're doing it to gain power over him, it will still get stressful after a certain length of time, and you will start resenting him for not measuring up to your own standards.

[EaterPeter]

Nope. Are these the changes you want to make for yourself?