Why do we women in general , alway tend to pursue the ideal image of society of a beautiful couple. A couple where the guy should be tallest? ?

[Petra150]

I'd might have asked this question before , or at least likely questions , but still I'm not convinced my fellow sisters bring up the honest answer. I assume reasons can be many, and most want to look sympatric , and wouldn't show there rightfull thoughts of a guy shorter than themselves. But rather use excuses like , they alway loof for a great personality or guys with the same education , or perhaps a reason quit usefull that men in general are taller than themselves. That might be correct, but many studies show that taller man relationship are overrepresented with more than 50%, so I'd love to know what honest explanation women bring , and even more why so few of us , aren't just a bit embarrassed buy open-hearted rejecting guy on something out of there hands, and also if we find being rejected on s thing out our own hand is fine, and do we think it's great to be rejected by a guy for something out if our hand , well as height really is the single most thing no to change it can be reduced to being rejected on our Height , as the only thing. Knowing most men will never tell the truth, s guy rather mention every other reasons for being rejecy, I'd yet to hear a guy mention the real and horrible truth , then being rejected just because they are a single or two inch too short, but IRL that's the hard and horrible truth. Live your opinion

[TruthBringer]

Let me tell you something Petra. You will NEVER get an honest answer out of your fellow "sisters". It is in their nature to remain politically correct in order to be 'likable'. Those who say they "don't mind" the height of their partner are in truth lying their asses off and would flock to the first guy who is towering over them. The reason why they refuse to date shorter men is because they want to compete with society. They want to show off their tall boyfriend they got to break their necks in order to kiss. It's a status symbol for them. They don't want to get laughed at by their peers or other women for dating a shorter man. Even though that shorter man can be 10x more masculine than his taller counter parts.

I have seen shorter guys beat the crap out of taller dudes in combat, have higher testosterone levels, are far more muscular, lift more, are smarter and are ahead career and lifestyle wise.

If there is something I've learned about women from all ages is to take their words with a grain of salt. Because what comes out of their mind is fundamentally a defense mechanism rooted deeply in their biology for survival. And that is to tell you things for you to like them, not what you need to hear. That's why there is so much frustration about women saying they want nice guys, but go for the assholes instead. And you yourself are frustrated about their behaviors and insincerity already validates what I said. So dear Petra, I can tell you, you will search for answers you will never get.

[Petra150]

Hi I do in some extent agree with you, and I'd think I'd pointed it out in my question. Reason I'm so curious isn't for myself , as I'd gone right again society norms my /us self , ans I know the man also have big bills to swallow if you understand me. I'm 8-9" taller than my hubby and we'd been in relationship for 13-14 years now, getting may this spring. But as our offspring apparently inherit my genes for becoming tall as hell ( I'm 204 cm tall , to some tragic tall, but not for us hubby love placing his face right in my bra while dancing or simply hugging me) . So our two daughters are tall, our oldest 11 year next week is already 6-7 cm taller than I were when 11 years old, so we would like as much knowledge about this height taboo as possible, as all my family on my mother's side been way above avarage height , we know it's possible to live a great live with a shorter ( quite a lot shorter) husband, as me my sister and mother all have men way shorter, but perhaps things been even worse, due to online dating where swiping left on men has been a national sport for most women the western world, and knowing that height requirement is something essential for young girls , perhaps we'd end up with a huge rest group of NOT tall men , men who are doomed to stay single, while a hole lot of us women also will stay single , but with that important differences that we women apparently has chosen that status for being picky as hell

[coka10]

I am not sure what you are really asking, but personally I prefer guys that are taller than me because I like feeling like the smaller one and feeling protected. It's not that deep for me. Some might feel differently, though!

[Petra150]

Get you point, would you like guy telling you , that you were too short , would you like that , and what would you do about it. Being rejected for being an asshole... Solution... stop being an asshole. Rejected for being too thin or thick , solution Lise or gain weight. Do you get my point. Perhaps a guy can be just as attracted to taller women as women are attached to taller guys, should all shorties be left alone sir reasos out if there hands, my guy only 181 cm tall or 5'11,5 I'd wonder if he just should been single all his life , missing them magic 6'' with less than a half inch. He'd simply a too great guy to be a leftovers for our horrible height Preference. He like many other guys couldn't care less if there women are towering them. Hope you get my point

[coka10]

To be very honest, I'm not sure I totally get your point. I don't know about everyone else but I don't really a cut-off for height? It's just a matter of is he taller than me? Yes, or no. I think physical preferencesare valid though because physical attraction is necessary for a relationship (assuming both partners are not asexual). They don't automatically make you an asshole. I think physical preferences are just that: preferences. It doesn't mean that, for instance, I wouldn't date someone who is shorter than me. I just tend to prefer guys who are taller ¯\_(ツ)_/¯.

[Petra150]

Hmm get you point 96% of us bring. But still it leave s lot of guys standing back, s d as we know the main amount of single guys are leftovers for shallow reasons as height denied , as most of our sisters do dump a guy on just a single inch, I'd even heard the stupid heel issue , wtf ever thi k og heels if height is an issue for us, as the height horror mainly is in the head of us women, now it weren't hard for me to realise I probably ended up with a guy shorter, being my height weren't any tall guys around. But what pisses me of is when me and my hubby are asked right up our faces , if I could t had found a guy my own league, refering to hubby's height , I'm not aware who feel wore me or him by such a rude questions, I never felt there's something as a correct relationship height the partner in-between, but perhaps you have a predefined fact list where you can see what acceptable height guys must adhere to to satisfy the public. I'd always thought personality way above every other features and height might been the last thing I'd been caring about. And yes I'd been phoned down by really tall guys more than once, I'd even been asked when out with my hubby, and a 7' guy came over and told me , we were a god match and while laughing of my hubby telling me to get rid of him fast, guess you can guess my answer, u still can feel the pain in the hand I placed right up his ugly face. Yes I might be different and WE are proud