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When we just started dating my boyfriend was very loving, unlike any other guy I have dated before. He always made time to text me during the day even though we’re both busy working, called me straight after work and we could chat for hours, sent me flowers, always compliment me and tell me daily that he loves me, once he even flew to another country to see me and take out for dinner also he insisted and paid for the tickets just for me to go and see him and it was like this for a year but now as we are dating for nearly 2 years I just feel how everything has changed. He texts me just good morning and it’s every day the same like he does it because he has to not because he wants to. No more texts unless i text first and he gives a dry answer or he needs something, in the evening he is usually busy or in the best case calls me for 15-30 min and then says that he still has things to do and has to go. Even when we talk for longer I can say that he’s not really listening and just starts doing something around with me on the phone. He stopped saying that he loves me unless I say so he can answer with I love you too. When I ask him if everything is ok and if he wants to be with me because I feel that he got a bit cold he always says yes, that I am overthinking and should stop asking silly questions. Is it time to get worried or am I actually just overthinking and it is normal that after some time things change this way?

I'm most definitely delulu but hopefully it's the solulu.

Sorry if its long

So there's a guy we went to high school together we were not really friends we just used to bump into each other in clubs etc. We were only saying hi but thats it. Then i finished school and we didn't see or talk to each other for a year but i sent him a happy birthday text bc we always wish each other hbd every year, both of us always say thanks but thats it. Except this year he asked a bunch of questions about me and how i like uni. Turns out he will go to the same college as me and his apartment is going to be a 5 min walk from mine. He started texting every day, asking lots of questions sending voice messages, pics about himself. Once he had to come here to my city bc of college papers and stuff and both me and him had busy schedules for that day. He wanted to meet me that day in town but during the day we just did'nt have free time for the same hour. He chose to wake up at 6 am sat on a bus for 20mins to come see me before i go to work. He was kinda awkward/nervous around me. He used to hug me back in hs in a friendly way this time he didn't do it. I wondered why. It was like a usual thing between us. After us meeting he started sending messages like im at a club but im not looking for any girl bc i have u then saying jk jk. Or putting it this way like: u know ur mine now😘🥰🥰🤗🤭😌😡😠🤗 with lots of cringey emojis like its supposed to be a joke. But he already made another plan to see me again..

So is he onto something?

i matched with this guy on hinge and we’ve been texting “non stop” since last Sunday, talking about literally anything. we would respond to each other within 1-2 hours, or when we both aren’t busy. he is so far the only guy that doesn’t ask questions like he’s interrogating me but that he’s genuinely interested in my life and sometimes flirty too, just enough that it’s cute. on Tuesday, he planned a date for tomorrow, a really thoughtful one since he’s taking me somewhere he knows i would really enjoy (i just moved so im new to the area). honestly, im kinda enjoying having someone to talk to about, but im just curious what you guys think