I met him on some bar and he asked me out on a few dates. He decorated his entire backyard just for a dinner night between me and him. As far as I remember, He called me beautiful and pretty everyday.. He took me to parks, to different places I thought I never would have liked.. but I did, and was grateful he took me to those places. He gave me gifts, cooked for me, even though he was busy, he checked in on me. But the problem was I was completely in love with someone else at that time. So I cut him off. I never wanted to waste his time. We never really spoke about being girlfriends or boyfriends but he called me "Honey" "Babe" many times. I am confused. He was the first guy I ever did all of those things with. (Besides me dad lol) is this considered a "relationship"?
This sound like it lowkey was startin to be a relationship ya feel me? Even if y'all ain't explicitly call each other boo n bae n all that.
Homeboy was straight spoilin you wit them homemade dinners in the backyard, gifts n all them dates. Baller as fuck yo, dude def was feelin you no cap.
Sayin you beautiful n callin you pet names like honey n babe also a big sign he was catchin real feels. Plus checkin up on you n shit, mans was tryna lock it down ya feel me?
Only thing missin was probably the intimacy n commitment part since you was still vibin wit ya ex. But from the sounds of it, dude was tryna make you his girlfriend on god.
So don't even trip, you def did the right thing cuttin him loose since ya heart wasn't in it. But shit seemed to be headin in the relationship direction fa sho to me bae. Sorry it didn't work out n thanks for tellin me tho frfr! Keep ya head up Queen
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