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There have been a few times in my life where I dated women who had “school girl” crushes on me. However they later quickly bailed when they got to know the real me.

I am not a psycho or anything. I am definitely a deep thinker and can be sensitive about things. I got some depression but I’ve always been independent both financially and emotionally. I get support from friends but I know it’s ultimately up to me to fix my own issues.

Anyway I’ve improved on how showed my lesser sides to women as I have gotten older. Gotten better at being careful about what emotions I will show women vs. which ones I’ll keep a lid on. Especially when it comes to insecurities

But I can remember dating a few women in the past who were initially head over heels for me because of the fantasy they had in their head about who they thought I was. Sure it felt good initially. They often pursued me and made dating easy. No problem getting laid in that scenario (usually their idea). They also would act seemingly supportive and tolerant of my personality. But this always ended bad. Very bad. One girl ghosted me after dating for 9 f*cking months. And all while I was dating I was aware they might just be daydreaming only to do a 180 later when their “emotions” changed.

But there have been a few women I pursued just to discover issues with them later that was less than pleasant. It was a turn off but I never did a quick 180 immediately just because they didn’t match up to the original image I had of them in my head.

Hello, I'm 20 and I have a full time job. At my workplace, I really hate it for many reasons. 1. My boss is a bitch. She downgrades people in the office, tells people they're going to amount to nothing, calls people fat, sometimes tells people, and has no respect for others. for example, she told me I was fat and I was wasting time at the gym. To put it in perspective, she weighs more than me and is shorter than me. I've caught eating fast food multiple times and she said I tried to lose weight but kept quitting. She also denied me a promotion at work based on her insecurities that she had. She demands respect from all of us because we're not in a authoritative position and one time someone did talk back and they ended up receiving more work and came in at a late time stayed later than all of us. She has been blaming us for all of the problems at work because we're not achieving standards that we have. It's mostly because she focuses on one thing that has nothing to do with the standards and also attached an unrealistic goal with it as well. She usually makes us stay late we have to work from 6:30am to 6pm. We used to leave at 4:30pm but changed once she came in. A lot of people have already quit the job for these reasons. I have felt very burnt out from this job and I barely have any free time and I do part time college as well and I only get paid 30k a year.