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Over my life I’ve had to deal with all sorts horrible incidents with women. Being ghosted. Being (unannounced) friendzoned. Being stood up on dates. Being insulted over things I have little or no control over (physical features I was born with).

All of that sucked. However when I find myself in a role reversal situation I usually try to treat others how I wish I was treated.

For example when I broke up with last girlfriend I really didn’t want to see or talk to her. I knew she was going to go berserk and not take it well at all.

However my girlfriend before me completely ghosted me (after dating for 9 months). The girlfriend before that treated me like I was less then human we broke up (despite me maturely accepting her decision) and gave me virtually no closure. Some of the things she said to me back then still haunt me to this day

Anyway I planned to do neither to my last girlfriend. As excruciatingly uncomfortable/painful as it was I broke up with her face to face and the whole ordeal lasted over 2 hours. She screamed, yelled, cried, made a huge scene and culminated with her threatening to commit suicide. It got so bad her grandmother had to call the police to have her placed on psych evaluation. On one end I truly felt bad for her but another end she inadvertently gave me closure and helped me confirm I made the right decision. I look her up on social media form time to time and thankfully I know she’s still alive

So as horrible as that was at least I was able to walk away knowing I did the right thing. I gave her full respect and closure. Let her say everything she wanted to say. She can look back and know she got it all off her chest. I know that will help her move on faster.

However I have never once in my life had a woman give me that kind of respect. But still do people generally treat others worse when they are mistreated in romantic scenarios?

Do you use plus lenses when looking close?

I do because if we adapt to near vision, the eyeball elongates and is unable to focus at distance. Then it takes some effort and time to shorten the eyeball. Last time I checked the statistics in 2017, the average from like a million humans was correcting a quarter diopter a month, which is why it took people up to three years to get from -9 diopter myopia to not need correction.

Even animals trying to improve their focusing distance can't do it all at once, according to published research it. The eye responds to stimuli. Scientists didn't even expect instant results, which would be like doing splits the first day your try.

www.sciencedirect.com/.../S0275540897000033

If you haven't started I recommend wearing plus lenses when reading. Or at least keep the screen as far from your face as humanly possible.
Do you practice other habits such as looking far away or up at the clouds after a long period of reading?