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How to fix this?

I (20F) have been with my boyfriend. (20M) for a year. Now let me make this clear that i have been in a very emotionally whiplashing relationship before him. I got with him a year or two after my abusive relationship. And...
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Is it wrong or controlling to have a zero tolerance policy toward cheating in a marriage or relationship?

Recently I was having a conversation on here of all places about loyalty and fidelity in a marriage. Said person told me i was sexist, controlling, abusive, and misogynistic for telling my wife that if she ever cheated on...
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Does it surprise you the amount of men who have abusive relationship with older women?

Lot of guys are fine and enjoy it, but lot of guys I knew had bad experience with older women when they were teens or so. Even if they enjoy it at the time, it has a big impact on them later on, not always negative but...
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I’m almost 100 percent sure I’m in an abusive relationship with this girl, what do I do?

I feel like I’m always walking on eggshells with her. And I can NEVER tell her ANYTHING. She also corrects me on everything! And she even tells me what to do. But tries to act like she’s not controlling. She told me how...
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Is this a bad sign if it doesn’t turn her on?

so my girlfriend says that it doesn’t turn her on when she eats me out and it just makes me upset like how can you be in love with me and it doesn’t turn her on when she always used to do it with her ex-girlfriend’s, I...
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Girls, what did you women feel after leaving a guy who you were in a ltr with for another man?

I really need a female’s point of view for those who were in a relationship with someone for more than a year: how did you feel after you left him for someone, suppose you had downtimes. He became complacent, lost...
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Guys’ have you ever experienced Emotional Abuse in a relationship with a girl?

Emotional abuse is when a partner ridicules you , or criticizes you and belittles you , they will threaten to leave you , if you don’t do what she says. Another form of emotional abuse , is when she with holds intimacy...
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Please don't judge harshly, I know I'm wrong and not good?

I'm in abusive relationship where my partner is physically and mentally abusive towards me. I've been with him long time and recently his friend was giving me attention and we had been meeting once a week or so, the way...
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My grandma died and I don't know how I feel?

I feel guilty that I feel relief. But she #1, had pretty severe dementia at this point and very little quality of life. And #2, I had a pretty abusive childhood with her. I spent much of my time with her as a kid. It was...
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How to deal with being in a physical and verbally abusive relationship when there is kids involved?

I had been physical abuse by my child father so many times from choking me to him slapping my body to the floor and I got fed up with it. So now we not living together but he wants to see his son but I'm afraid if I come...
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Have you been in Abusive relationship verbally or physically if so how did you get away?

I was married to my ex who was verbally abusive. I got away with help of my friends.
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Why is this man that I am seeing so fixated on how different our upbringings were and our lifestyles?

I really like this guy.. but I feel like what he is doing right now is sabotaging any kind of growth in this relationship. I had a good childhood. I grew up in a middle class home, got along with my siblings, my parents...
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Do I have to get married to appease my parents?

I'm 41 male, and I don't want to get married or even have a relationship. My parents are pressuring me to get married before they die. Their "marriage" is extremely flawed. my father is very dominant over me my sister and...
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What if you don’t recover from an abusive relationship?

That relationship ended in 2023 and virtually everyday I still think about names I was called how I was hit and how she turned everyone against me and some days it makes me not want to leave the house
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How do you avoid being scapegoated for someone’s mental health issues in a relationship?

Like if she came into the relationship with the issues how do you avoid people blaming you for the issues if they were present before the relationship started. I ask as a learning experience I dated a girl for two years...
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Does it say more for patience or does it make you a fool?

If you notice red flags in a women very early in a relationship and due to trauma she experienced in the past those behaviors you don’t hold against her instead forgiving her and moving past it only for something else to...
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What is he thinking?

Long story short, my ex was an alcoholic and a drug addict. He promised change several times but it never happened. I got pregnant. When I was about 2 months I asked him if he’s planning on quitting like he said he would...
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Should I break up with my boyfriend over this?

I just exploded on my boyfriend because he accused me of lying about my dad being abusive. Long story short, my dad was mentally and physically abusive and had a drinking problem all my life. That DOES not mean I don't...
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Am I doing something wrong or does he have unresolved trauma?

the longer we stayed in the rent together the further apart we came. He had developed this tendency of being very verbally abusive. He had ways of being manipulative or gaslighting. He had developed ways of in our...
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Was this abusive relationship the best I could get?

So I have posted on here how I was in an abusive relationship that ended in 2023 she was verbally and physically abusive often times hitting me and calling me names like nuisance, stupid motherfucker, nuisance. So I’m on...
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