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Do you make use of your free will?
I was at a pizzeria and I'm looking at the menu, they have calzones but the spinach and cheese one has no meat... So I'm like hey are these calzones made to order? Yes What do you think about putting sausage in there? The...
Is this security guy flirting with me or just being friendly at work?
So I like this guy and he works in the same facility I do but he’s more police/security and every time I go through the gate I have to show my ID if he’s there hell always give me a wink and a smile. I don't know if this...
MaeMay
Xper 1 Age: 41 Is my quiet coworker actually into me or just being friendly?
So I’ve been working at my job for a few weeks now, and there’s this guy I work with who’s really attractive. He mostly keeps to himself I never really see him talking to anyone but he’s spoken to me a few times. The...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why does everyone seem more attractive in this new country than me?
A single guy in a new country, I noticed everything one I see over here is much more attractive then my own country's Especially girls. It's difficult to actually approach someone who is hell of more attractive and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Have you ever countered an "act of service" with an "act of disservice" to camouflage your feelings for a person?
Perhaps it's just something that happens in city environments, but I've found that bc I do a lot of community service I don't pick up on a guy doing an act of service for me... My mind glosses right over them, I think, bc...
Why do girls act interested then suddenly date someone else instead of me?
Hello i am 20 years old and i never had a girlfriend!!! I don't easily fall for someone and i could probably count girls i really liked on finger The problem is that i follow same exact patern and it happened 3 times in...
Anonymous
(25-29) First meeting in person was awful. Why?
i (22F) study in a capital city in my country second year now, university is very hard for me, i feel very lonely and for the last year I've been extremely depressed. there's a guy (22M), he's gay so its nothing romantic,...
baddiska
Xper 4 Age: 22 Why would a woman chase me to talk but avoid exchanging numbers?
So basically I was at a campfire with my church group that some guy was hosting and when I had to leave, the girl that had to move her car behind me literally ran over to me as I was getting in my vehicle and said she was...
WhiteBoyChill
Yoda Age: 25 Have you ever thought someone was desperate for you but it turned out they were just treating you like everyone else?
This has probably happened to me multiple times but this post is inspired by my friend explaining "humbling" texts to me. Which she says are when desperate guys try to knock you down a peg after being "made" to put in a...
Girls, is being 180 cm tall a requirement for you to date a guy?
I met my ex while we were sitting across from each other. She said that I was actually pretty handsome, but that my height was too short. I’m 174 cm and she was 160 cm. When I asked what she had expected, she said she...
Anonymous
(18-24) throwmeaway1111
Xper 4 Age: 26 Was I actually being difficult with this impatient drive‑thru customer?
I work drive through at mcdonalds and take cash. There were only a few of us in the kitchen, and we were backed up. This guy pulls up to the window who has probably been waiting a while. All he ordered was a coke. I ask...
Joe917
Xper 4 Age: 34 Why is my coworker flirting at work but ignoring me on dating apps?
So basically, when I first met this guy it was at work because we are coworkers to be honest I didn’t even notice him at first but the day after our work Christmas party something had shifted he noticed ME and was...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why does my coworker flirt at work but ghost me on dating apps?
So basically, when I first met this guy it was at work because we are coworkers to be honest I didn’t even notice him at first but the day after our work Christmas party something had shifted he noticed ME and was...
Anonymous
(18-24) Men, is finding a woman with so much in common a turn on or not?
Is that important? Is that a turn on? For example For example.. I was distracted and quite sad after an ex made me feel like I was the gum at the bottom of his shoe… this guy I met at a store was nice. I didn’t pay much...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do we need this stuff?
I bought a new toaster oven last Christmas. It has an app, a WiFi radio, and AI controlled cooking cycles for everything from baking to air frying. I bought a solar charging battery powered skimmer for my pool last...
OneViewpoint
Guru Age: 60 Why do men act so into me at first and then just vanish without explanation?
Okay, so I used to be afraid and avoidant of relationships, but kind of got tired of being alone and after a long distance relationship failed, I tried to finally give a chance to something close to me, shortly was seeing...
I have a boyfriend but like another guy at school—what should I do?
For starters, I have known my boyfriend since early February and we connected through mutual friends. He goes to a different highschool than me but loves close so we manage to hangout every weekend and it gives us the...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is this strong intuition, pattern recognition, or just a good eye for people?
Over a year ago, I started bartending at this new hotel. One evening there were 3 men that came and sat pretty much in front of the area where I would make my drinks. I quickly noticed 2 of the 3 men. One was being...
RavenWing057
Xper 4 Age: 32 Does she like me romantically or are we just really close friends?
We’ve helped each other out plenty of times. Her more than me cause I’m always in a jam. I told her friend about my interest in her when I was drunk. I had some suspicion that my name came across there during the girl and...
MikeJones150
Xper 3 Age: 26 