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Search Results: being one of the guys
Were these McDonald's employees just joking around or being unprofessional?
My aunt and I went to McDonald's, and the staff seemed distracted, joking around and making us repeat the order a few times. One of the workers, a young guy, kept smirking and laughing with his coworkers while taking our...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do men only see me as a fun friend and never as girlfriend material?
Im constantly in my own head wondering whats wrong with and why guys dont like me or want to be with. Im well travelled, funny and just a genuinely happy person who loves to have fun. I dont have trouble with getting...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why is it this generation of men really struggle to take accountability?
At my work im the only female union rep. I essentially do my normal work but kinda act as a let's say lawyer to my colleagues if they get in any trouble at work i can sit in there meeting and defend them and advice from a...
MissPiggy2025
Xper 4 Age: 28 What’s something guys do that they think is attractive, but actually turns women off?
A lot of guys assume certain behaviors signal confidence, effort, or attractiveness, but they don’t always land that way. One common example is over-texting or constantly trying to keep a conversation alive. It can start...
BDRick
Xper 4 Age: 33 She says she prefers dark‑skinned guys but still compliments me—mixed signals or hiding interest?
I’m trying to decode a girl’s behavior. Here is the timeline: The Indirect: She mentioned that she likes light-colored eyes (I’m the only one in our group with light eyes, so it felt pointed). The Validation: She...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do women know what they want?
To be honest I'm kinda hoping all women on here debate this but there's a theory that when seeking for a partner women say and claim they want what everyone would agree are healthy things for relationships but they go for...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do guys actually like childlike, angelic women in their 30s?
The ones who are still child like in nature. Or do they think come on you're in your 30s being too naive isn't good.
Anonymous
(30-35) Do guys actually notice women’s nails and find them attractive?
Are long nails a turn on? A fetish Do you even notice a woman's nails? It's big for some women getting their nails done. Just wondered how guys felt about them. Does it bug you when a woman's nails aren't done or they...
Parakeeta
Xper 7 Age: 32 Approaching dating intentionally as a man?
There’s a ton of game and propaganda out there about how you have to talk to women like this and that and game her emotions. Does… simply being forthright and honest also not work? Why does everyone have to act like...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why did my friend call me a redpill dudebro who belongs on the Whatever podcast?
I'm a guy posting from my friend's account because I don't have enough XPERs on my main to post it there Anyways, I have a friend group with 2 girls. I'm extremely close to one of them because I've known her for 2 years,...
Anonymous
(18-24) Are beer bellies sexually attractive?
Let's be honest, anyone can get a six-pack. Being skinny just means you can't afford four good meals per day. On the other hand, beer isn't cheap, so to get a proper beer belly takes a lot of financial investment and...
purplepoppy
Master Age: 26 
Blake Lively Is Toast... but There Might Be Hope
About a year ago I wrote a Take about the whole Blake Lively - Justin Baldoni case in which Lively accuses him of sexual harassment Blake Lively Is Getting CRUSHED By Justin Baldoni - And I’m Glad . Since then we’ve...
Was my ex pretending to be a different man online to trick me?
I had a friend who I’ll call Tom. Not his real name. Tom and I agreed to wait until finishing our studies, for a year, to date. We agreed to be exclusive. Tom told me later that he’d been seeing other people in the...
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 Am I a coward for cutting off toxic friends when I’m already lonely?
I know I ask a lot of questions, bare with me 😭Okay so from middle to high school, i’ve had shit friends. the ones who would do unspeakable and i always let it slide for years. at one point i stopped and i ended up with...
bunnyboo364
Xper 5 Age: 21 Guys, How do I get a man's attention without being annoying?
There's a man I'm interested in and I'd like to get to know him better. Here's the thing, though. In the past, men have told me that I'm annoying, pesky, etc. I really like this guy and I don't want to push him away. For...
jazzy34
Guru Age: 36 Does this guy actually like me back or am I overthinking it?
guys im SO SORRY for not being active, i genuinely forgot to update you guys! so the guy the previous questions were about and I have had some interactions, but not as much as last year since we only have one class...
shasha_masha
Xper 1 Age: 16 Why do some women on here see men setting boundaries, like no sleeping in other mens bed, as being a baby and controlling?
You can't make this shit up, This 36 year old woman who obviously is irrelevant and hit the wall suggested that men are babies because we won't let them sleep around on us. As if being faithful to one partner is some how...
Anonymous
(30-35) Did I dodge a bullet with this guy’s controlling, lying behavior?
Going to try to keep this short & sweet. I met a guy, he sold me my car and gave me his number. I texted him that I'd love to go out with him. He set a date to a steak house and I was pretty into him from the jump. BUT......
Sophia234
Xper 4 Age: 28 Is lifelong commitment important in marriage?
There is a similar post Should marriage really be a lifelong commitment forever? where I tried to post an opinion, but when I hit Send It, I discovered that the poster had blocked me. This is an important question, so I...
Was he just being kind… why did we never end up being friends?
I met at camp and I was a loner and very quiet. no one talked to me… we sat at the same table with other people but I don't know when it started but he started paying attention to me… I told a story and he was the only...
Anonymous
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