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Me and my girlfriend are doing long distance relationship. She moved to another country for her dream job. Our relationship is realy great except one fact. She likes to meet new guys. She dances with them in the club, talk to them and share her IG account. All the time she says that it doesn’t matter and she is not responding to them but for me it is unacceptable. We spoke about it and she told me that she will not change that. That she likes to meet new people, she is feeling alone in that country and she will not change her rules. Few times I asked her if she met someone. She said no... and it was a lie... I don't won't to control her or lock i na cage. She can do whatever she wants... chatting is ok... but not telling that she has a boyfriend, dancing and giving IG is to far for me. I had an idea, that If she want's to live like that she should post our together photo on IG. Guess what? She will not - it's another rule. I trust her... but not everything in life is about trust. I’m one step from letting her go… We are not so young... she is 30, and I'm 36.

Eventually we all see the bad side. Whether they're a slob, smell, controlling, or something like leaving the light on all the time. For me I didn't realize how bad my girlfriend smelled at times but I still love her.