How do I tell my boyfriend I don't like him talking to a certain girl?

[Anonymous]

my boyfriend is in college, i've been with him about 7 months. his best friend is roommate and his roommates girlfriend is hanging around their dorm all the time and made friends with my boyfriend. i didn't really have a problem with her until i found out that she talks to my boyfriend over snap all the time, she braids his hair, she takes him out to food, she drives him a lot of places, and sometimes will kick him out of his own room so she can spend the night with her boyfriend. i don't know how to tell my boyfriend that i don't really like the way she treats him and i don't really want him to be around her very much. seriously she is around him more than me. i don't want to be too controlling so i'm not sure how to even bring it up.

[Twalli]

She is dating his roommate, she's going to be there often. The only way to limit contact between them is for him to have a different roommate. So you will probably have to damage his friendship with his friend and I personally wouldn't do that for someone I probably won't end up marrying anyway.
P. S. I am not saying your relationship is not a good one, just that most people dating do not end up getting married to that person.

[Fireguy17]

Honey, or Bob, I really don't like it when you talk to Susie.

I feel that...( fill in the blank with your reason (s)

Thank you for understanding.

Be direct or he won't have a clue what you are talking about.

[Daniela1982]

What's the matter? You have been with him for 7 months and can't have an informative conversation with him, which includes him doing something that you are not ok with? Too controlling? Are you a wuss? Speak your mind instead of cowering in a corner and just dodging everything coming your way instead of batting it back at him. If you can't talk to someone you have no business being in a relationship with them.

[Guy13]

Tell him straight up. Why not?

[Jacobbbb]

As your boyfriend he shouldn't even be comfortable with that to begin with I mean shit he has you. Address it to him and hope he understands. All you need to say is that it makes you feel uncomfortable

[FilmGuy93]

This is a situation when you really need to get comfortable with just saying things like that.

[LaraTara]

Girl thats NOT okay. They might as well date. I feel like there have to be boundaries when you have friends of opposite sex. I dont mind it my husband also has one old college girlfriend. But it would make me uncomfortable if they hung out so much!

[Tracker1958]

Remember it works both ways. If you pick who he can talk to. Then he gets to pick who you talk to also.

[sheikalana]

Tell him it makes you umcomfortable/insecure.