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At which age does life stop being dynamic and starts being the static and same-old like as in you don't expect meaningful opportunities to pop up, specifically for romantic relationships?

I felt that at 27 years of age. Felt it in smaller scales starting from 24 years old. Truthfully though when I was 15 years old and i was forcibly displaced, i expected to never escape and die from starvation or something.

By now at 30 years of age, the dynamic mysteries ended. I saw the past. I predicted my past from my previous pasts (except my escape). I foresee my future today. For my life is over, set it stone, no more surprises like getting a girlfriend or the exciting things, that the young are privileged to experience in stable and safe regions and conditions.

And I'm still broke.

So we have been together almost a year, and we have done all of the usual relationship stuff like flirting and texting and sending pics etc,

BUT in person she never wants to go farther and I don't know if im the problem because yes I am frustrated but I also would never want to do anything to make her uncomfortable

I keep telling her how both inside and out she is amazing and I know she has wanted to at times then chickens out and just offers to do something else again i dont wanna be tmi.

If I sound like an asshole please tell me I just am getting frustrated af