Search Results: guys and long term relationships

Was it a mistake to give him a second chance?

I recently had a brief summer fling with a a guy I used to work with, I only wanted something casual as I was going back to Uni (post grad studies) so didn't want anything long term as i wanted to focus on uni. When I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it good to date guys you don’t feel insane attraction to?

I have this guy who kept hitting on me on a dating site for people with Asperger’s. I generally prefer really masculine looking men with scruffy appearances. The man that seems the most interested in a relationship with...

MoonFace2

Xper 6 Age: 37

Guys, does going to strip clubs make you feel down on yourself afterwards?

They were fun to go with friends in my early 20's, but I'm over 30 now and have been going by myself recently, but feel like a worthless piece of crap immediately after I leave. After having no release in a stale long...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do some people rebound so quickly after the end of a long term relationship?

I am not sure what to say on this, since all my relationships before getting married didn't last past a year. My mother's cousin is in the separation process from her husband/partner (not sure if they were actually...

Sun_Kim-Ai

Guru Age: 28

Is he scared or just not interested?

I’ve been speaking to a guy I met off a dating app for about a week and half now. I know that’s very early days but we’ve called a few times and he’d stay up late just to talk to me even when he had to be up early. He...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Can a relationship between an older woman and younger man really work long term?

My female friend who is 43 years and a guy (35 years) have mutual interest in each other. She has two kids from a previous marriage and he has no kids but has recently divorced. They have a lot of intense passion for each...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Answering why I and most other guys in general have given up on dating?

If you go on YouTube or tick tock there are 1000s of vids talking about dropping marriage rates & long term relationships. One big theme of it is that men have just given up & there's a lot of people asking why so here's...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can you tell you’re being lovebombed?

Recently met this guy who I met on Bumble. He sent me a compliment that I saw before I matched with him telling me that I was gorgeous. I thought he was attractive too so I matched and turns out we like all the same...

Anonymous

(25-29)

As an Older Woman Dating a Younger Man, the 'Cougar' Stereotype Is Harmful and Needs to Go

I'm a 40-year-old woman dating a 27-year-old man, and we've been together for 8 months. Our relationship is incredibly meaningful to me. We have a strong, supportive connection where we both feel heard and understood. We...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

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Society & Politics

What are your thoughts on Donald Trump threatening to take back the Panama Canal?

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/us-news/2024/dec/22/trump-panama-canal I visited Panama earlier this year and I kind of see where he's coming from. WE built that canal together with the FRENCH, yet...

KostasKouvalis

Master Age: 27

I’ve been out of the dating world. How does a man act if he’s interested?

I just got out of a long term relationship. This guy has been actively talking to me for almost a month. We’ve been on a date, and I watched a movie at his house. He takes for ever to write back granted I’m sure he’s...

superfly69

Xper 5 Age: 35

She asked my father's offer to pay for her tuition. How should I interpret this situation?

So this is kind of an interesting situation. I'll give you a small bit of highly relevant background information, but I'd like to hear what you all think about this. I'll refer to the woman in question as "G." The long...

ProbablyClueless

Guru Age: 33

We've been friends for two years and he never mentioned he had a girlfriend. Should I still be friends with him?

I met this guy through a mutual friend in our industry roughly two years ago. Our friendship grew and he turned into one of my best friends. I just recently found out he has a long-term girlfriend (5+ years) through a...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Are these early red flags that he’s bringing in sexual innuendos early into the conversation?

I’ve been speaking to this guy who I met through online dating. He added me on social media and we’ve been chatting for the last 3 days. We’ve talked about meeting up for dates etc he said he’s looking for something long...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Are these early red flags?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it a red flag if a guy throws the odd sexual innuendo into a conversation or phone chat but then jokes it off?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Coping with a crush while in relationship?

I am in a long term relationship and living with a partner. Stumbled upon a guy that have a crush with for about 4 months, following my partner being unwell and other problems. Maybe it's a form of escapism. I don't know...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Guys, does your girl have a good personality or a bad one?

There are guys who only date women for their bodies... Want to know why? It's because those type of guys have experience too much of girls with shit personalities and determined to just settle for their bodies... As short...

Anonymous

(25-29)