Search Results: how to know if he just wants a hook up

Do you think he just want sexting or do I self sabotage?

So I met a guy in different city from bumble (traveling is not a problem for us), I was very clear only looking for hook up, and I told him I’m really not into and won't do sexting so just a quick hook up. I went to his...

Lolalollll17

Xper 1 Age: 31

Does he want to use me or something?

Okay so basically me and this dude met back in September. He was lowkey my plug lol but I don't know I can't remember how a proper friendship started forming between us and I'd find myself talking to him about personal...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do some men who like a girl, get shy/nervous about actually going on a date with her?

I know there's some men that won't take a woman out because he just wants to hook up. There's also men who won't plan dates with a women because he's got a roster. But, could a man that you talk to every day who is kind...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would he keep me on snapchat?

A guy i hooked up with added me on snapchat and he opens/responds to my messages right away but doesn't want a relationship and he said he's not single but not married which I didn't know until after the fact, but I'm...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What should I do in this situation?

When I was in 8th grade I confessed to this girl and she rejected me about 3 year later my best friend starts to date her. He told me but I didn't really care because she I was already over it and liked someone else. My...

Robert4665235

Xper 1 Age: 20

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Did he give me bad juju?

I recently hooked up with the man I’ve been inlove with for more than 11yrs we are not a couple he doesn’t want anything serious unfortunately but we are adults I’m 32 and he’s 44, so I’m not really sad about it I’m just...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ladies, what are your real intentions here?

I’m stuck in a situation where I don't know what to do. Me & this had in a fling beginning of year which grew into something more. But along the way, she felt like I was way outta her league, so she ended up hooking with...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is this consider a date? what to say?

met him through a dating app a few years ago. we never met. things didn't work out. we were back and forth on things rather we find each other attracted, to be friends, or him wanting to hook up with me. I remember a few...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do my friends keep trying to hook me up with guys?

Why can’t my friends understand that I gave up on relationships? I mean don’t get me wrong I appreciate what they’re doing but they need to back off. I know they’re both engaged and they said the need to find me a man and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Why do I want to talk things out with him should I?

My manager and I started hooking up 6 months ago and I agreed to do it with him if he promised to not hook up with anyone else at my job. Throughout the months I could tell him and I started growing feelings for each...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Sneaky link help?

So this guy in my class stares at me a lot And he text me on insta and we talk But I went to his house and we hooked up but just kissed , I’m really attracted to him. But inside university and when he is with his...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

I want to hook up with someone a week after I was broken up with?

So my girlfriend broke up with me about 2 weeks ago out of nowhere. And the aftermath was pretty ugly. We do still live together and she is planning on moving out as soon as she can. But I’ve been incredibly lonely...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I feel bad for feeling used after sex, when it was nothing serious. Also, would you kick someone out if your flatmate was coming back home?

Me and one of my friends recently hooked up with each other, we had been flirting for a while and i’d had a crush on him for ages and it finally came to a point where we agreed to just go for it as we both didn’t really...

Anonymous

(30-35)

She made me bad?

All my life I have been a good man. I have only focused on one girl. if I was interested in one girl, I would reject the others and miss my chance I have rejected so many girls because I had eye for one. Even in a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What are a few quality traits your partner has that are irreplaceable?

I’m not perfect far from it and a lot of my good quality traits can be negative in dating and end up pushing the woman I care about away more often than not. Something I always wanted was one just one girl who truly...

MLGbreezy

Yoda Age: 27

Why do I still miss him and think about him. Could he still miss me as well?

My manager and I started hooking up 6 months ago but agreed if only he wouldn't hook up with anyone else at my job and he said at that moment he does not want anything serious which I agreed cause we both just got out of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I think my boyfriend cares more about his dog than me?

Me and my boyfriend have known each other since we were little. We were best friends in primary school and we used to hook up in sixth form. We grew up having very difficult life's. I come from a very good middle class...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Did I do well by calling him and cutting him off?

Hey guys I need to mostly just vent and hear some advice. Im really sad and feeling betrayed. So 6 months ago I started hooking up with my manager and no one could know bc he would get in trouble. Before we even started...

Anonymous

(25-29)