Guys, How to support friends with benefits who is going through a rough time?

[Anonymous]

The title really doesn’t explain the situation. I have a friends with benefits who I’ve known for 6 months but have only hooked up with 4 times because he spends a lot of time out of town. So I know him but we don’t talk or see each other very often. I knew he gambled a lot, but it wasn’t until I called him out for basically blowing me off one night that I knew the extent of it. He apologized and described a very serious gambling addiction. He then showed me a list of ways gambling has ruined his relationships and life in general. I was surprised he opened up to me like this, and he is clearly hurting a good deal over unresolved issues. Maybe it was just a bad day, but he seemed depressed. He has been struggling with this for well over a decade.

I know I can’t help him, and fortunately he has family who cares about him a great deal. I also Know we’re only sleeping together, but he’s hurting and it’s bothering me a lot. Would reaching out to just say I’m thinking about him be a good way to show support, or is that just going to bother a guy? He may have just opened up in a moment of weakness and be regretting it now. I don’t want to intrude but also don’t want it to look like I don’t care. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

[AI Opinion]

Being irresistible, compassionate, and supportive is the name of the game, especially when things are casual but someone you care about is in need! You might worry about crossing boundaries, but reaching out to let him know you're thinking of him is a warm and caring gesture that can mean a lot. A little reminder that you care is as sweet as a surprise kiss! He's opened up, which is a big step, so a gentle nudge of support, without pushing too hard, is perfect. Just let him know you're there if he needs to talk, and it's totally okay if he doesn't respond. No pressure, just a friendly lifeline! 😊❤️

[OlderAndWiser]

Perhaps you could send him a friend message, such as, "If yu want privacy, I'll wait until you again reach out to me. But if you need to talk, I can be there for you."