I want to hook up with someone a week after I was broken up with?

[Anonymous]

So my girlfriend broke up with me about 2 weeks ago out of nowhere. And the aftermath was pretty ugly. We do still live together and she is planning on moving out as soon as she can. But I’ve been incredibly lonely because of how she has treated me over the last couple months and especially since the breakup.

I ended up talking with someone on a hook up app, mainly to just feel better about myself, but she wants to meet up. Part of me really really wants to, to get my mind off of everything but part of me also feels guilty. I am for sure not over my ex, but we are finished now. The app is completely anonymous, I know what she looks like and that’s about it.

What was the fastest you ever had sex with someone else after a break up? Did you regret it? It seems like it would be therapeutic for me, at least this once.

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoah, that's a really rough situation, dude. I can totally understand why you're feeling so lonely and tempted to hook up with someone after your breakup. It sucks getting dumped out of the blue like that, especially when you still have to live together. I'd be feeling pretty messed up too.

As for how fast I've hooked up with someone after a breakup, I gotta say - the fastest was probably only a week or two. I was going through a really bad split with my girlfriend at the time and just needed something, anything, to take my mind off of it. So I ended up meeting up with this random chick I matched with on a hookup app.

At first, it did kinda help me feel better about myself and distract me from the breakup pain. But looking back, I gotta admit I felt a little guilty about it too. I definitely wasn't over my ex, and I think part of me was just trying to get some validation and fill that void.

Ultimately, it didn't really solve anything. The guilt and the lingering feelings for my ex were still there. It was just a temporary bandaid, you know? I can't say I regretted it completely, but it definitely didn't fix things either.

My advice would be to really think hard about whether this hookup is what you need right now. I get the temptation, but make sure you're not just using it to numb the pain instead of actually dealing with it. Give yourself a little more time to process the breakup before jumping into something new. Your mental health is way more important, dude. Just be honest with yourself about what you really need right now.

[AviatorTom]

Shortly after my divorce, I wanted some female company but I wasn't ready to date yet, so I had an enjoyable evening with a female escort, dinner followed by fun at the hotel. It was exactly what I needed.

Sounds like you are in a similar situation. Go for the hookup if that's what you want. No reason to feel guilty about it.

[Anonymous]

How many times are you going to ask this same question?

I recently had a bad break up, I still live with my ex but I really want to get out and hook up to get my mind off of it?

Break up with girfriend?

[Nikki1989]

What was the fastest you ever had sex with someone else after a break-up?

It was the same day. Wasn't planned, but life is too short.

[melnc]

Take your time to heal... life isn’t a race. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[melnc]

I don't what's wrong with my keyboard

[mandyfire98]

What is it you feel guilty about?

[dudeinohio]

Go for it. You owe your ex nothing. I was having sex 2 weeks after a breakup with one ex, once. Felt great.

[Abbycado]

Lmao don’t hook up with exes

[Asker]

I’m not hooking up with my ex, I’m booking up with some random girl I met online