So initially you wouldn't feel bad. You actually felt good and would go out and meet new girls, but after a few months you began to feel it? How so?
haha maybe just me being crazy but I kind of feel free when I break up but for some reason the feelings start to come after a while! but I I usually would wait a couple of months before iI start a new serious relationship.
You aren't crazy. I feel sorta free myself, especially since I was the one who broke it off. I'm just wondering if my ex is hooking up with other guys and being spiteful or if she has already moved on and couldn't careless about me anymore.
I was with the girl for two years. We lived together for one and a half. Things weren't going to great between us and she started making a "new friend". I got very uncomfortable and broke up with her. She said I left her on "suspicions". I think she turned to him right away for comfort and possibly a hook up, I just wonder if she still thinks of me and if she is hurting. I haven't heard from her in over a week. But last I know she was still telling me she loved me and wanted me to come home.
I honestly have gone through this with her before. She says she understands what hurt me, but things never change. That is why this time I didn't go back.
Find some one who deserves you. Sorry but she is playing you because she knows you will always be around,her fall back guy. I'm not going to say she is not thinking of you because it is difficult to just forget anyone. However,if someone is out on the prowl when they are a part of a relationship,it is because they have already checked out of the relationship mentally,emotionally etc. I think this has become a game to her,sorry to say. It's great that you are not going back.
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Did hooking up quickly really help you forget him quickly?
Definitely, helped forget him, but not like in a day, it took time, but it diminished my feelings for him. It was more of a mentality like "letting him see what he missed on", especially because his best friends were at the same restaurant lol. They even said "___ will get jealous", which lets me know, HE still had feelings for me. But in reference to the guy I kissed, there was no second date lol, he wanted one but I didnt.
Let's.say you were together for 2 years and live together for one and half years.
when your ready.
Interesting, but was he still on your mind? If so, how long after you broke up did you think about him?
yup still on my mind and the time it took for me to forget about him depended upon how much I liked the new guy. If I really liked the new guy I honestly forgot about the ex maybe within a month or so