Search Results: initiating a break up

Am I justified for feeling this way?

Something has felt off and I know I shouldn't have but I looked at boyfriend's phone during a rare moment that it was unlocked. I saw explicit texts between him and a gay guy friend of his that made it clear that they had...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My coworker ex ghosted me, then started treating me like shit?

I (23F) was in a short relationship with my coworker 33M. We dated for several months after he flirted with me for about a year, partially while he had a girlfriend and I finally caved and agreed to go out with him after...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What do you make of these signs?

It seems like it's hard to tell if a girl likes you or is just friendly. This is about a specific girl, but I've tried to make it objective / third person. If a girl exhibits the following behaviours, what would you...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Ex girlfriend responds but doesn't initiate conversation - she said she wanted to talk post-breakup but now tries to get around it maybe?

Hi everyone. My ex broke up with me a little over a month ago pretty amicably over Facetime (we are students who were on opposite sides of the world for winter break), and said she wanted to meet me when we get back to...

blexalukos

Xper 1 Age: 25

Break up or stay?

Here’s the gist. I’ve been dating someone for about 2 months, things have been alright but the other night we said I love you to each other, I initiated that but wasn’t expecting a reply of the same. I have feelings...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Here’s the gist. I’ve been dating someone for about 2 months, things have been alright but the other night we said I love you to each other, I initiated that but wasn’t expecting a

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Guy's Behavior

My ex told me he’s lonely?

After we broke up, my ex tried to initiate some friends with benefits activities, but I shut that down and told him it’ll never happen. Since then we have barely spoken, and whenever we do it is because he has initiated...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Curious about ex’s use of snapchat?

My ex and I broke up 5 or so months ago. Pretty abrupt, I’ll save the sob story. Long story short I told him I needed space/couldnt be friends right away like he wanted. He sent me nudes, we had a little fight, and have...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

What does it mean when a guy I’ve been talking to says “(my name), we’re still okay? Is he trying to get me hooked or does he genuinely likes me?

Background: We started hooking up in January 2023, but we originally met in 2022 on December 20 something. He lives in Austin and I live in El Paso, TX. We made sure it was just sex, no strings attached. After agreeing,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I broke it off with a guy I was dating because I felt there was no effort on his side?

I've been dating this guy three months and l've basically been initiating everything like to see him or go out on a date it maybe once or twice he initiated some thing and I started to get mad about it because why am I...

Fallenangel177

Xper 4 Age: 35

Why did my ex (who initiated the break up) text me this?

my ex who I was with for 4 years texted me after 1 week and couple days of no contact. We spoke about getting back together but he said he liked being on his own and said he didn’t know. Felt all confused so I left it...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I have to treat my best friend's ex girl like crap?

Ok so I recently had a situation where my best friend went through a break up. It was a bit of a messy ending, and he went through a really rough few weeks trying to get over her. He was so mad at her that he asked me and...

adam6402

Xper 5 Age: 24

Relationships

A heavy situation/relationship?

This one is a loaded question, so bear with me here. And, also, I’d really appreciate a very objective response as opposed to subjective just because this one hits a little harder. I was dating a man exactly 1 year ago...

Matcha19

Xper 3 Age: 36

She doesn't seem interested in talking on lunch break?

I like this shy, introverted girl at work. Sometimes our breaks match up and we're in the break room at the same time. Problem is, she doesn't really initiate any conversation aside "hey" and "cya", and maybe a "how are...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend randomly broke up with me because he wants to pursue his hobbies, what?

i've been dating this guy for a few months, he's the first one who genuinely interested me and i could imagine us going far, but on the 26 dec, he told me that he can't be in a relationship, that he is not ready, that his...

Anonymous

(18-24)

If a girl breaks up with a guy and she initiated it and she treated him like garbage why would she continue to do so afterwards?

Like let’s say there are finances still to be figured out why would the girl continue to be rude

Anonymous

(30-35)

Who should initiate the break up, the woman or the man?

Naturally, in the case that the break up is mutual. We had one of my wife's friends over for a glass of wine because the guy she was seeing was supposed to sleep at her place but broke up with her instead. She wasn't much...

Sun_Kim-Ai

Guru Age: 28

Relationships

Im starting to question my 4 year relationship with my boyfriend?

I am 24 and he is 22. I love my boyfriend but sometimes I’m not sure if this relationship is something that is going to last for me. there are some issues for me, his relationship with his family isn’t the greatest and...

Anonymous

(30-35)