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There's a guy in my neighborhood who always scopes me out.

He tried chatting me up but kept freezing.

Finally, he managed to look me in the eye and we exchanged "hello"s.

I noticed he wears a thin silver band on his middle finger on his right hand.

He is always staring from afar watching me intently but also breaking and avoiding eye contact -- I do the same because his staring weirded me out.

I can tell he and his co-workers talk about me because I've seen them and also they will look at him and stare at me when I go to his place of business.

He engages in "look at me" behaviours when I'm around

• Preening
• Always walking back and forth
• Adjusting his clothes
• Fidgeting a lot
• Even trying to show off his butt (kinda gross)
• Signing a tune if I'm nearby
• Being bossy to the cooks in the kitchen and trying to look serious and in charge

All of these antics for quite some time makes me thing he just wants validation from me and nothing else.

I've always seen him smoking and would always look at his cigarette in disgust. I haven't seen him smoking for the past little bit.

Since he keeps sending signals but does nothing is his ring a sign of him being in a serious relationship?

Please vote and share your opinion! 🙏🏾

Guys' opinion is welcome.. At first he pursued me, flirted, I reciprocated and he suggested to go out. I said yes but he never made plans. Then he started playing games, when I ignored his message once he said 'you never liked me'. When he was transferring money to me he said it was 'for coffee'. I thought he was just playing me so I started treating him like he doesn't exist. He tried to talk to me and stared A LOT then but I ignored him. Then on social media he would post 'don't trust people who don't reply' or 'people don't know what they have until they lose it'. I thought it may've been directed to me. After holidays when there was no contact between us I decided to ask him out. He didn't reply but he started staring again and wanted my attention. We started talking again. He messaged me for weeks, was flirty in messages, sent me hearts and hugs, always texted first and a lot but avoided me irl. He stopped initiating physical contact though (at first he was also physical). He would kind of avoid me or run away from me, avoided eye contact too. He honestly seemed frightened of me. Recently he suggested that we meet but with my friend invited too (he didn't flirt with her but me all that time). I confronted him, asked if he's even interested, added that I don't like texting, told him either we hang out or to leave me alone. He said he was sorry for not organizing a meeting and said he wants to continue our relationship, and said I shouldn't be negative and overreact and that I can always tell him anything I want face to face. I replied to tell me when he's free. No response but he still wanted to talk to me in person. In total I asked him out like FOUR times already. Now he ignores me. Doesn't text anymore but is very nice in person. What's going on? Why is he doing this to me? At first he chased me a lot and now it's like a different person.