I feel like it’s mutual he’s just holding back because of work. 31F 40M Why does he do it? Is it mutual or one sided? Why do men do this. I’m getting mixed signals When we talk we keep eye contact. We flirt. he’s put his hands on my shoulders he’s touched my neck right where the shoulder and neck meet. He’s touched my waist. Hell wink at me. He says he likes to tease me because it’s fun. He’ll say he miss me. I think about him constantly he’s funny and nice and VERY ATTRACTIVE (looks like Roman reigns but better in my opinion lol) He’s divorced has been for 10 years. I’m just going nuts cause I feel like he likes me but then my brain is like no he doesn’t.(march 4) we had walked out to my car cause I had got him coffee and he had asked me “so what do you want to do to me Sara” (he never calls me by my first name only my last name). I told him I couldn’t say because he’s my boss. I told him not to call me by my first name because I like it. Well two days later I worked up the courage to ask him To dinner he said he doesn’t date coworkers. And later I asked why he asked me what “I wanted to do to him” he did he said was joking but I’ve never in my life known a man to joke like that. he knows I like him he knows I find him attractive I’ve told him. I had told him the other day that he looked smaller he said it was the jacket he was wearing and that he could show me his ripped body I told him don’t tempt me with a good time he choked on his drink when I said that. This was two days ago. And every now and then he’ll say my whole name instead of just my last name to tease me. (Also not my real name by the way)
So I gave him his coffee this morning. (I bring him coffee in days we work together I like doing it)
And went inside was talking to him and some other coworkers cause I still had time to kill before I had to leave. And joe looks at me and says you got to go I’m like no I got 20 minutes so he grabbed his papers and smacked me with it and said yes so I said I don’t want to go yet I’m going to be all alone. So he said I could text him hi and he’ll say hi back I said no
