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I noticed over the years that women bring up height excessively more then men do. They not only talk about height in romantic scenarios but with platonic / professional interactions with men as well.

But every time women mentions a man being short, it’s almost always a negative connotation. Even if they like the short guy they will say something like “well he’s not very tall but he’s really cute or funny” or something.

But if a girl doesn’t something else about the short guy (his personality, looks, etc.) they virtually always bring up his height. Especially if they reject the man romantically.

But at the same time guys are less prone to say “well she’s really sweet & cool despite being overweight” out loud. We might be thinking that but we are not allowed by modern culture to say that because it’s “too mean” or something.

I am 6ft so fortunately height isn’t an issue for me. Like anyone I notice other people’s heights in most situations but I don’t immediately factor that into my judgment of people.

I once dated a girl who was 5’ 11’’. Despite my favorite female body type being cute, petite and athletic, her being tall and skinny was virtually a non issue for me. It did make things slightly more complex in bed (shorter girls are more versatile) But I didn’t really care that much. It was like factor number 37 out of 50 for me.

Also I don’t notice height at all in platonic and professional interactions with women or men. I don’t asume a really short guy or a really tall girl might have a negative personality right away. Some short guys do have napoleon syndromes. I’ve met a few short loud mouthed dbags. But overall that stereotype is often exaggerated.

I guess height judgment is evolutionary for females. But women need to understand that men have no control over their height whatsoever.

If you are more attracted to taller men then fine. But if you don’t like a shorter guy than don’t throw out his height as one of his “faults” like he had a choice in the matter.

My girlfriend Krista has been overweight for the past year now. I’ve been trying to get Krista to go to the gym and she’s been refusing. Tells me she doesn’t have energy and makes up excuses.

Krista tells me I need to come with her to the gym. But I can't go to the gym with her regularly because of my busy work schedule. I work as an oil truck driver 14 hours days. So I’m always away or sleeping.

I asked Krista to go with my buddy Dale who’s a retired fitness coach. Krista says she’s not gonna go with a man. Always one excuse after another.

Today she told me she went on a 2 hour walk with a guy she works with named Cole. And how her and Cole are getting a gym membership together and they’re gonna go every day together.

Does this seem suspicious? Or should I end it?