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Okay... so I was on an online forum, presumably a pretty toxic one, and the topic at hand was whether it was "okay" or not for "fat" women to wear revealing clothing or show skin. And one of the people attached the photo of the woman above, saying something like: "Do you REALLY wanna see elephants like this wearing such skimpy outfits such as this? How can a woman who looks like THAT leave the house dressed like that and feel absolutely no shame?"

And I was just like... WHAT? Is that literally not just an average or normal body type? She definitely isn't super skinny, but she most definitely doesn't look "fat" to me either. She does have somewhat of a belly, but then again, so do a lot of people. I wouldn't even consider it a bad thing, just some extra softness. Her belly definitely doesn't look excessive to me either.

Honestly, I'd refer to her as "curvy." She has big boobs and relatively wide hips, only her waist is a normal size instead of super thin. Which makes sense. Usually curvier women won't be super skinny.

Also... my own body type is quite a bit "fatter" compared to hers, so if she's "fat" what does that make me... lol...

I'll also get this out there, I'm bisexual and her body type is honestly kind of ideal to me. She's in pretty good shape overall, yet looks like someone who can enjoy pasta and beer and just chill. She isn't supermodel attractive or anything, but I like more average looking girls since they're more welcoming and relatable to me. I find the supermodel types too intimidating/unapproachable anyway, lol.

Like all the websites you google say Chinese people are skinny because they eat low calorie diets and exercise and that is a lie. I know plenty of skinny Chinese people and they eat the same if not twice as much as fatter Chinese people. Chinese people are skinny cause they eat 7-8 bowls of rice every day which gives their body vitamin B1 and vitamin B1 is needed to metabolize fat and vitamin B1 must be combined with fat to be absorbed which is why people who eat black beans are still fat. It's the most common deficiency in the world. You don't have to eat rice to get vitamin B1 cause salmon and pork and black beans and green peas have it too which is why filipinos and eastern europeans are skinny. This is one of many nutritional failures that make some people over weight while others are skinny. Vitamin B1 also kills your appetite so you don't feel tired or famished during low calorie days or fasting days but it only works when it's combined with dietary fat.