I'm 26, 5'4 and overweight for my height by 55lbs. I've joined the gym when I was almost 200lbs. Now I'm 188lbs. GW:130
This question popped up in my head because I suddenly feel like if I was skinny MY life would be easier. Dating would be easier, people would be nicer and more receiving. Outfits would be better looking on me and I don't have to think about hiding my fat or rolls.
I remember when I was 17-19 was 130lbs. And life seemed better and guys used to hit on me more, I'd get free things, people were friendlier etc... so I personally think: skinny=easier life. Until I got into an abusive relationship and I ate as a stress reliver and bolloned up. I got the courage and brought up with him after he was thousands of miles away through text.
Now I think life was a bit easier for me it was due to my age, being young attracted a lot of guys and all I've mentioned before so I can't really say it was because I was skinny.
Now I feel invincible. I'm my normal regular self as always, and I don't get the same treatment unless I have makeup on. I do wear simple dark colored clothing and oversized sweaters and hoodies. I wore oversized tops when I was skinny too but no one questioned it or cared. Now people feel and have said it's because I'm hiding my fat.
What do you think? From observation or personal experiences?
Below is an after and before
Is it true that when you're skinny life is relatively easier?
