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Search Results: trying too hard
Women, what do you think of a man in his mid 20's-50's & beyond who can't cook, an adult man who is completely dependent on someone else to feed him?
I've actually seen and heard about a lot of this in the 10 years I've been divorced. And it's not just "old school" mentality like I thought it would be. Younger and older guys seem to do this. In one example, a guy in...
OneViewpoint
Guru Age: 60 Why does my boyfriend value me being "liked" by others and wants me to be popular?
I know this sounds crazy but I thought long and hard about what exactly is it that my boyfriend wants from me that he isn't getting already. I KNOW that not being able to simply ask him is a deep rooted issue in itself...
Anonymous
(25-29) Guys, Getting mixed signals, what should I do?
I met this man online a while ago, it was in a larger group setting. Eventually we started talking on a professional level, but the professional talks started relaxing into casual and friendly, we started calling each...
Anonymous
(30-35) Am I being too hard on this former friend for what he did to my brother?
This was in 2010, when both my brother, and this friend were 12. We all grew up together. Friend told my brother, and I he is gay. We told him we had no problem with that, so long as he didn't try anything on us. One...
Nicholas1302
Xper 5 Age: 32 Why does my family always talk to me when I’m trying to do my homework?
My brother sees my on my computer taking notes, he just casually starts a conversation. He’s a student too so you think he would get it, but he doesn’t. Usually when I tell him he leaves me alone but it’s just annoying...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I handle this situation with guy I’m dating?
I went out with a guy 4 times in the last 3 weeks, with last Sunday because the 4th time. We live 1.5 hours apart so we can’t get together during the week. I knew he had prior commitments both Friday and Saturday, so...
Katarina88
Xper 5 Age: 38 How many people have you met in life who share the same depth as you?
I mean same or similar emotional, intellectual and spiritual depth, like you feel that they just "get you" without you trying too hard. It could be people you've dated/ are friends with or anything else. For me...
Southeast Asia. The Ancient Counter Culture.
The word "Counter Culture" may sound bad but not on a different context. What I mean by that is it's diversity. I'm sure most of you already know about it's diversity. What is counter culture? "a way of life and set of...
Aiko_E_Lara
Master Age: 28 Are you reckless?
I’ve always been a cautious person. I drive the speed limit and don’t take risks. I’ve never climbed a tree, haha. Anything physically risky growing up, I was always the “I’m good. You dumbasses can do that shit if you...
In The Age Of The Internet, Is Constructive Criticism Hard To Get?
https://www.youtube.com/embed/Ieoiv_m-0VU https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2OkTNwrEZj0 Yes it is indeed a very basic song, badly written, sure, but compared to commercialized music? This is so much better. People are...
fonduegirl
Guru Age: 25 Why would a guy do this?
Ok so my ex he broke up with me via phone call the other day because i was asking to set up phone dates (we just recently went from seeing eachother every day ro long distance) then not even 10 minutes later he texts me...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is still grieving the loss of a relationship after almost a year pitiful?
It's almost August 1st, the date of which he broke up with me last year and I'm still grieving. I thought dating someone else would help me to get over it, but it only ended up making things worse. I suppose me still...
Am I depressed? Whats wrong with me?
I am software developer working on c# . net old application. I like my job (8 hours of job) I don't have family, and no friends now, everyone is too far away. I am always bored, only when not working. And I try to...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do you vilify animals?
I’m a fan of all sorts of pets and wildlife; some might suggest to a fault. When i watch and read about orcas hunting white sharks, i honestly side with the sharks! To be fair, it might be my savior complex. I would...
Do you (women) get disgusted if a man looks at you at the gym (Not stare just casually have a glimpse.)?
I know this is hard to answer because it depends on the man is good looking or not. I don't want to be called a creep or something but some of these women are too good looking. I try to look a the floor, ceiling, my...
Cluelessguy95
Xper 4 Age: 30 If your significant other is a good battle rapper, and he/she had some hard hitting offensive lines about you just for fun, how would you feel?
Here is an example of the degree of how mean it would get: https://youtu.be/HMHKnEkLMgM?si=slbtFFv66tYY1Sk9 This is mostly just about attacking his weight but it could definitely be about a lot of other things like maybe...
Anonymous
(36-45) “you deserve better”?
I dated my ex for a year before we ended, he’s a pretty insecure person & has messed up a lot with me in the past & present day. He tried to make a lot of things better but it’s really hard to move forward because the...
Sophia2795
Xper 5 Age: 30 Why we risk trust even after it’s been shattered
1. Because love doesn’t shut off like a switch Even after the betrayal, your heart remembers the laughter, the late-night talks, the way they once made you feel safe. Love holds on, even when it hurts. 2. Because hope is...
How does one just let things happen naturally?
Lately, I’ve been feeling this kind of… quiet desperation. 32 years old and alone. Like I go through life doing what I’m supposed to, minding my own business, nonchalantly, but deep down I feel stuck — like I’m waiting...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is my girlfriend trying to look better for me?
So I’m in a long distance relationship. We met online. But went on vacay together. And one of the things that upset me is that she didn’t take pictures of us together. And she took some of me alone. She also doesn’t like...
Anonymous
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