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I read this in a fantasy novel called: The Etherial Squadron by Shami Stovall...

"Women want men who are gentle with them, but rough with everyone else. You have to be tough on the outside, but soft enough for them to feel like they've learned the real you."

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"Second, you need to make eye contact as much as you can. Across the room. In a conversation. While you eat. Whenever. you.
Can. Women love it when you stare deeply into their eyes. Lastly, you need to pick a physical feature about them and compliment it as the most beautiful you have ever seen. Her eyes. Her hair. Her complexion. No other girl compares. Got it?"

From what I’ve heard and seen in the USA if you’re a normal guy, you might as well just give up.

In Japan you have an epidemic of lonely men. A tiny birth rate that is going to destroy the country: All due to the fact:

• Women work
• Less social interaction
• Women have insane standards - high education, rich, good family background, handsome and tall, good personality…. Basically 1-2% of young men, the rest are dead to them. Basically like America.
• People get married so late, resulting in fertility issues

👉Bringing women up in the world results in global suicide.
👉Many western men are about to get real lonely and depressed.

In china a lot of people call women 30+ ‘left over women’ ‘the orange that didn’t get sold’ ‘the sugarcane that didn’t get sold’

Whereas men single and 30 get called ‘quality real estate’

Makes sense, after all they will be the biggest superpower. You have to shame people, if there’s no accountability nor values what’s the point. People need to be settling down earlier so they can have kids.

Women and people generally are too selfish these days, I’m struggling to find a really good woman that’s ready to settle down. I find i match with tons but it leads to ghosting etc.