Search Results: how to be attractive to men

• Weird question, I guess like if we were talking about dating, and I said to my friend, this girl walking down the street that approached me was pretty, but not my type. Or if a woman said, this guy that works at the store is handsome, but kind of a douche. The last one would be if in conversation, a woman that's in a relationship says "I think so and so is cute, I think so and so is cute, like just telling you about people they work with that they find cute? I don't really do this around my women friend, but sometimes my friend will ask me if I find certain women cute?

Men see taller men as more dominating/intimidating. I wonder if this applies to women with attractiveness.

Some people argue against marriage for a variety of personal, social, and financial reasons. Here are a few commonly cited reasons why some men choose not to get married:

1. **Legal and Financial Risks**: Divorce can be financially devastating due to alimony, child support, and division of assets. Some men feel that the legal structure of marriage disproportionately affects them in cases of separation.

2. **Loss of Personal Freedom**: Marriage can require compromises on independence, personal time, and decision-making, which some men might be unwilling to sacrifice.

3. **Changing Social Norms**: With the rise of cohabitation, long-term relationships without marriage, and acceptance of various family structures, some men feel less social pressure to marry.

4. **Fear of Divorce**: Given that divorce rates can be significant in some countries, some men avoid marriage to prevent emotional pain, financial loss, and the stress of a potentially complicated breakup.

5. **Negative Experiences**: Some men may have seen unhappy marriages in their families or among friends, which influences them to avoid marriage altogether.

6. **Prioritization of Career or Personal Goals**: Some men may choose to focus on their careers, personal growth, or hobbies, feeling that marriage could interfere with their aspirations.

7. **Perception of Modern Marriage Dynamics**: Some men believe that the traditional benefits of marriage no longer apply due to evolving gender roles and societal changes, making it less attractive.

These perspectives don't apply universally, and many men still see great value in marriage depending on personal, cultural, and relational factors.

Last night, I saw a tweet where a woman was complaining that she gets more attention from men when she dresses like a bum (oversized t-shirt, messy hair, looks like she binges Netflix all day) than when she wears a sundress. This morning, one of my friends sent me a TikTok where a woman was complaining that she feels like she has to dress up to stay relevant in the dating world. The complete opposite of the first woman.

Personally, I'm more attracted to a woman who is dressed casually and has similar interests to me. In my case, a woman who will play pickup basketball with me and the guys is sexier to me than a woman who dresses up and shops all the time. I've been on way too many dates with women who just want an expensive meal and wine.

What attire on the opposite sex are you more attracted to?