Search Results: how to get guys to approach me

Woman asked me a strange question?

To preface I'm a 30-year-old introverted man. I'm at the point in my life where I seriously want to make changes in my life and find a relationship so that I can get married and have children. I wanted to step out of my...

sweetvictory

Xper 3 Age: 33

Guy's Behavior

Is this normal/common? What do y'all think?

Is it normal that guys don't approach me at all? Or is that more common than I think? I'm not even sure if guys even stare at me even lol, sometimes I think a guy's looking at me but he might be looking to any girl around...

Punk-y

Xper 5 Age: 23

Guy's Behavior

Why doesn’t he just tell me how he feels?

I’ve known this guy for about 10 years (we met in high school we’re both 26 and 27 now) Looking back at our messages there was always some flirting and we never really connected emotionally just physically. When we were...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Have a female friend that's trying to get back on the dating scene. Safe topics for her to use to approach guys she doesn't know well?

Have a female friend that's trying to get back on the dating scene. What's some safe conversation topics for her to use to approach guys she doesn't know well? Not too aggressive in case the guy is married (she's in her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Got a female friend that's trying to get back on the dating scene. What's some safe topics for her to use to approach guys she doesn't know well?

Got a female friend that's trying to get back on the dating scene. What's some safe conversation topics for her to use to approach guys she doesn't know well? Not too aggressive in case the guy is married (she's in her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Why do I get no dms on Instagram despite having a decent following when all the other girls I know are always bombarded with requests from cute guys?

I’m decently pretty with 800 followed which is decent for a high schooler and my account is public. I get a few dms but only from guys who mass dm very girl in school in hopes a response. The only cute guys I get dms from...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

How do I become approachable when my striking friend gets all the attention?

I’m 16 and very extroverted and social. Id consider myself to be pretty usually and I’m called pretty when I’m out on my own (never by guys my age though and I’m never approached). I’m not the kind of pretty guys ask out,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

Girls are crazy?

My boyfriend used to study in one of our universitys computer rooms. This study space was also occupied by a few other students, mostly Chinese students. Out of which there was 1 lady in particular who was always...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Girls keep looking at me?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Am I invading his personal space?

There’s a guy at church that I’ve interacted with a past couple Sunday’s since he joined the church. We sit next to one another and the conversation is great ! We talk about are likes and dislikes and topics in Sunday...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Am I over stepping his boundaries?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why would my friend’s ghost date message me?

So… It has happened 2nd time already. This is another guy, the first one - I cut him off and of course, told my friend about that. Here’s the story of a 2nd guy, we met each other when I was on a date with a German guy...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Guru Age: 29

Dating

Would white guys also be attracted to mixed racial light skin girls? How do you attract them?

I've always had a preference for white men ever since I first started liking boys but I felt pressured to only date black guys. So, I never felt sexually attracted to any of my boyfriends other than the biracial/mixed...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Do attractive people have a harder time dating?

When a guy is only average or below average looking, he won't really get approached by girls and will have to do to most of the work himself and actually approach a woman and do some work. Whereas, an attractive guy might...

baddabing

Xper 6 Age: 32

Dating

How can I reject a guy without sounding racist?

My problem is English is not my first language, I am from Europe and since I have settled in USA, some of the black guys around me is trying to flirt with me or simply asking me out but my type is white guys and whenever...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

HELP I DONT KNOW WHY I GOT GHOSTED?

I met this guy over the weekend at a recreational tournament (we will call him grey shirt). He was pretty attractive, and we ended up playing on the same team as one another. After every kill he got or every kill I got,...

confusedlovergirl

Xper 3 Age: 20

Guy's Behavior

How do I get a guy to know it’s okay to approach me at a bar?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

How many good guys with guns was at this establishment - and how many "good guys with guns" was able to take down a "bad guy" with a gun"?

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/michael-rudman-arrest-florida_n_641b0b81e4b0bc5cb653b7f7# Video Shows 'Heroic' Security Guard Wrestle Gun From Masked Man Entering Strip Club Security guards at a Florida strip club are...

legalboxers

Editor Age: 49

Dating

Approaching 30, and have no experience with women. Is it too late?

I keep hearing "it's a numbers game, it's a numbers game". Well, my number is 0. It seems that since anything happens so infrequently, that by the time I get a second date, I'll be 50. It gives me anxiety to think...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Direct message?

I found this guy on Instagram who is currently at the school I am transferring to next fall. I want to dm him and ask for his snap so I can get to know him a bit more. But I don’t want to come off weird or creepy nor...

Anonymous

(25-29)