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Search Results: thoughts on first date
Advice on a man cancelling 1 hour before date?
We dated briefly 6 years ago. He found out I was single again and reached out to catch up. He asked me on a date and seemed very keen. The day of he says something came up he’s helping family and first tried to push...
Anonymous
(30-35) My Personal Red Flags
Please note that I’m not dating anymore because I’m happily taken 😅 These are just examples of the red flags I would be looking for if I was dating again. I’m leaving out the obvious red flags like physical abuse or...
My girlfriend still isn’t ready to kiss me yet?
I (M20) just got back from our date couple hours ago. We had a great time and I really did enjoy it but the whole time it felt like half I’m here with my girlfriend (F18) and the other half I’m with a friend. At the end...
Clippers1Fan
Xper 3 Age: 24 How can I move on?
So I was with my ex for 5 months. We had a lot in common and we had the most fun on our dates. He met my mom and I really thought we was gonna be together for a long time. He recently broke up with me 3 months ago because...
Chocolatebunny98
Xper 4 Age: 25 Did I overshare with my crush?
Me and this girl had a really positive first date, although it is not totally clear if as friends or something more. Today she asked me what I thought of it and in a small string of texts I ended up telling her I was...
YoungWerther
Xper 2 Age: 29 Why does shy guy never initiate anything, but got upset when he thought I stopped talking to him?
Talking for 4 months. We’ve been out on a date and kissed. He’s admitted he’s shy and inexperienced. He always talks about hanging out but never actually asks. He always accepts when I ask. He rarely texts me first...
Anonymous
(36-45) This question is for boys & girls?
I don't know how to say it but i met this guy on a dating site (I’ll tell some of his personality traits he is narcissist, self obsessed sometimes weird) but i kinda like him but when i first met him he told me not to...
Anonymous
(25-29) I just slept with an escort to lose my virginity, what does this mean for my future prospects dating?
There are a whole lot of details here I need to explain before anyone answers this: first off: I'm 25 as of last week so no I'm not a young man with no confidence looking for more. Secondly, I didn't reach this age as a...
Anonidunno
Xper 2 Age: 29 Does your barber give massages too? Also, you ever think of these thoughts too?
Just came from getting my tri-weekly haircut and it got me thinking how many other people’s barbers give massages afterwards? For me, I’m kind of ticklish so it takes quite a bit of willpower to get through the whole...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is My Poem Cringeworthy?
So, I am going on a date for the first time in almost seven years soon. Normally I write fiction/sci-fi, yadda yadda... The woman I am interested in recently told me that she used to write poetry from the top of her head...
Anonymous
(30-35) 33F & 45M Anyone dated someone who is starting separation divorce process and has kids? What are the red flags?
I went on a first date with this guy who I met at the coffee shop 4 days ago. He came up to me and asked for my number. I rarely ever give my number but thought why not, he seem polite, this guy took the guts to do that...
Anonymous
(36-45) Attracted to older men as a young woman?
I'm 32 and he is 46. I have dated 30+ men who are either my age or slightly younger etc. and a 32 year old guy, but this is my first guy that is specifically older. Age is just a number. Here is the thing- It...
barlowhavelock
Xper 5 Age: 35 Are things moving too quickly?
I started seeing this guy almost a year ago. We only went on a couple dates (on the first date he asked to kiss me and “rated” my kiss a 9, I thought that was strange) and he was inconsistent in communication so we did...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it okay to talk and/or complain about exes with a friends with benefits?
There is one girl I have been friends with for the last 3 years. We hooked up the first time we met when I was visiting a different state (all her idea she invited me over and initiated). But it was quite obvious for...
Anonymous
(36-45) 2nd date set but no plans for it?
We had a great first date & he had asked me out for a 2nd which im excited about. Given our demanding job & schedule, we exchange a couple of text a day. We haven't discussed & he hasn’t shared what we’ll be doing and im...
Anonymous
(36-45) Advice on knowing when a girl is shit testing you vs. just having low interest?
All women “test” men especially early in the courtship. Many don’t even realize they are doing it but it’s part of the evolutionary dating approach with men. The more she likes you the less she does it and the easier her...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do I transfer to his school?
So I really need some help here. By the end of this summer break I am transferring to another school because I don’t want to continue an IB program which I go to right now. The problem is, the school I am transferring to...
Anonymous
(18-24) "Friendly date" and "friendly flirt", what happened there?
One woman I met at my university and I went out with, told me we are on a date. After few times I wanted to initiate more dates, she asked: "We are friends, right?". I was like wtf. "You told me we are one a date...
Anonymous
(25-29) I have a girl dilemma. Any insight?
Alright. In my last question I mentioned that I was going out with this really nice girl and asked what a first kiss experience was like. First off, thank you to those who responded. Since that time… things have taken a...
Anonymous
(25-29) When she falls asleep while on the phone?
The person I asked out to have a bite to eat outside of work, fell asleep while we was having a lovely conversation over the phone. I told her to go get some rest but by time that happened she was already fast asleep, and...
KingChocolate30
Xper 3 Age: 38 