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Like ladies, why aren't the 20s guys good enough for you, or so I still pass for 20s. I recently turned 30. Guys, do you at 30 or 30-40 find that women in 20s try to pick you up, even with just their eyes 👀😋 i sort of feel like objectified hahaha. I'm just doing my thing, being single and merry and *senses someone staring* looks and woman turns or carried on like they weren't just eyeballing. Meanwhile I keep watching the public tv like nothing while I eat and then pack up my shopping and carry on. Lol. Soon I'll just have to dress even more shabby/poorly to turn off the women's glances. Women, aye? 😈😁 Funny fickle creatures.

Me and my ex were together for some time, after the death of my girlfriend before her.

She kept me comforted and helped me get through it. Once I felt well enough, or so I thought, I wanted us to give it a try. But it became apparent that she didn't love me the way I loved her, and eventually, she broke it off, on good terms.

We contacted eachother now and then, just to catch up on how our families are doing. I asked her how her mom was doing, but instead of a reply from her, a guy claiming to be her boyfriend said "stop talking to my b! tch, I fuck her good".

Hearing that hurt, that message told me all I need to know about her boyfriend, if she considers him so. It tells me that he doesn't respect her, and doesn't consider the act of mating as a special thing that people who love eachother share with one another.

Although, I've moved on from her, and I'm in a new relationship, I invested just a little too much to ever not have any feelings at all for her. But most of them are me wanting her and her family to do well, and it's apparent to me that who she's with now doesn't respect her, and she deserves a man who does.

It didn't seem that she was much interested in talking to me, anyways, so I'll oblige, I won't talk to her, anymore. However, I received a call, and when I asked who it was, he told me it's "my exe's name" new boyfriend, and he said, "Look, my name is" But I quickly cut him off by saying "I don't need your name, my first impression of you tells me all about who you are. I have no wish to speak to you". Before hanging up.

He's made no attempts since then. For me to have such a strong dislike for a person to not even want to converse with them is quite an insult. But I figured that a strong insult, combined with my brushing him off, is all he deserves from me.

I wonder if I let my emotions get the best of me, I'm not an emotional person, but when it comes to love, I can't help but be a little emotional. Was I too mean?

I was an introvert before but I think I have come out of my shell now 😊. Nowadays I started my business and am not shy to talk to people anymore and now I am looking to get in a relationship👫. But not good at keeping conversation going on face to face with girls but am good at chatting via insta🥲.

So at least 4 days back I got a message from a college girl 🫣🫠 complimenting me on my car being nice from my photos and I thought to start my journey here.

But I have no idea on how to take our insta chat to real life and even to start a relationship between us.
Any tips dear gentle men and woman 🥺🙏