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I am turning 28 in a few months, of course nearing my 30s, and I never had a real girlfriend before. I had some online things, but they all rejected me upon meeting in person for the first time. Meanwhile, I have watched all my former friends form serious relationships, get married, and most of them have kids now.

I am not the most attractive guy physically. I am short and overweight I admit. I am also "weird" to a lot of people. I am on the Autistic Spectrum and have mental health issues too.

I haven't touched a girl since I was 20 (back in June 2015). I lost my virginity then to a 16 year old girl who was supposedly a virgin too at the time. I have only had sex exactly once in my lifetime. I have never actually "made love".

It saddens me because all my life I always wanted to have a girlfriend, wife, and kids of my own.

Really, I am seeking a decently attractive woman without a romantic past, but my days are numbered finding that I feel. That is a deal breaker to me. I feel I would be lucky to even find a good woman who has never been married at this point

Heavily inspired by this question here, would you be considered attractive enough for the modern woman? All of these traits, are the bare minimum women require, the 80th percentile. Meaning, better than four out of five men. You need at least seven out of ten of them to "pass" the "dateable" test for modern women.

1. HEIGHT: Are you at least 6'0"/183 cm tall, barefoot in the evening?

2. INCOME: Do you earn at least $90,000 USD a year?

3. CAREER: Do you have a professional, well-respected career? (Doctor, lawyer, scientist, engineer, etc.)

4. SEX APPEAL: Is your penis at least 7"/17.5 cm in length or longer?

5. PHYSIQUE: Are you in good athletic shape? As in, not overweight.

6. SOCIAL SKILLS: Do you have at least three good friends and/or one really close best friend?

7. CHARISMA: Do you consider yourself a good communicator, skilled at speaking to others, or someone who "has game" at charming women?

8. LIFESTYLE: Are you someone who completely avoids such vices as adult movies, recreational drugs, fast food, online video games, gambling, or couch-potato habits?

9. CONFIDENCE: Do you really like who you are as a person, proud of who you are, or have a high opinion of yourself?

10. QUALITY OF LIFE: Would you consider yourself to be a well-adjusted and happy person with no signs of mental illness, anxiety, or depression?

Yes, I know people on the internet can be complete assholes to those who are overweight, assuming it is all 100% due to sloth and gluttony. But let's see what GAG thinks, anyway. Yes, there may be a mix of these things, but I want to know the biggest contributor to it, in your opinion.

And yes, I am overweight despite my cardio exercise and minimalist diet. Speaking personally, I'm a mix of options A through D. I've always had an unhappy life and Hypothyroidism doesn't help in losing weight.

Myself?
I'm only 71 inches in stature and I'm a little overweight. Obviously I'm option A.

as a personal attack against them?

For instance, if I acknowledge that woman is overweight, that would get me the "fatphobic" buzzword thrown at me, even if I'm only just showing concern for her health (possibility of type 2 diabetes and cardiovascular diseases in the future) rather than trying to put her down or insult her. Nowadays, it's just not worth trying to help anyone out without too many people taking everything personal these days, lol.