Will you date or marry someone who’s overweight?

[Anonymous]

No I will not because I’m a fitness enthusiast who loves staying in shape.

Yes

No

I’m not sure

[Cynicaldreamer]

It really depends. As a gymrat, I would prefer someone that's in shape as well! Not just for looks, but it makes more sense to be with someone that will not only push me, but motivate me to stay healthy and fit.

However! I would not mind dating someone that's out of shape, if he wants to change his lifestyle or wants to workout as well. I've seen plenty of overweight people lose weight because they were motivated to be more active, or keep up with their partners. If a met a guy that fell into that category? Absolutely! Hell, we could go on walks together, fix healthy meals together... that kind of relationship would be fine with me.

[CJP2022]

I said yes. The reason bring is because as long as he is a good man/she is a good woman, that should be 100% all that matters. To me looks definitely do not matter. Mostly because a lot of the guys considers considers 7,8,9,10 that I've met are super self centered and rude with the exception of maybe 3 or 4 guys. Obviously it can be the other way too, but my point with that was that I don't date men based on looks, I date men based on their personality. Hell, if the guy I'm dating is a 10, and has and outstanding personality, then that's just a bonus.

My current boyfriend (of 10 years) to me is a 10, because he has the sweetest most loving personality. The guy i dated before him was probably more of a 3 or 4, because he had an awful personality and I'm glad I got out of that relationship when I did because he could've turned out to be abusive for all I know

[schittywok]

You can try it. All you want. She's attractive. But you think you can change it all, be the tough love person. But it primarily won't work out that way. When it doesn't, that's a bitch. Because you are the bitch that tried to make it work. When all you could have been was a really good friend. Unless you like fatties, fuck all.

[TheLoneTerran]

A little overweight or underweight, sure. Obese or dangerously underweight, no. I'd like my SO to be at a healthy weight so they'll be around longer.

[Aerissa_Jade]

I would, but not if they were Morbidly over weight, they'd have to be able to keep up with me at least.

At least in the USA, half the population is over weight so saying you won't date someone who is, eliminates half of your potential dating pool.

Then what happens if you get married and they get over weight? divorce them? what if its a medical reason like having Congestive Heart failure, look up what happens to people with that.

[Reaper1985]

depends to what degree. sometimes a little more or less weight then recommended is still generally healthy. but obese or anorexia look is typically a nope for me. unless they plan and try to get within a healthy weight in the future.

[Cherry234]

If he's slightly overweight then fine. But not if he's morbidly obese. I'd still want him to lose weight or I'd encourage him to lose it. I don't mind a man who has some fat.

[TheUniqueOne96]

It depends on how big she'd be.

I don't mind a bit of fat on a girl, especially if she carries it well.

[UniquelyBasic]

Depends how much overweight. She can be considered overweight but still not be obese. So in that case yeah, she doesn't need to be thin or have muscles. Im okay with a little fat on a woman for sure.

[MCheetah]

Yes, I most certainly would. Almost married someone who was nearly 6'4" and 290 pounds. She was a strong woman, too.

[shaysh87]

I'd rather not. But just remember that the right man will never be the full perfect package. Otherwise, you will just be single for life.

[razelove]

If she'll be my sugar momma, she can legit look like a female chris farley. I'll still treat her with love and affection.

[Anonymous]

It’s really not about looks for me. You will always look at the one you love as the most beautiful person on the planet. I do wish my fiancée was a little healthier though, I want her to live forever with me.

[Twalli]

If they have no intention of losing weight, I might not, but my girlfriend and I are both overweight due to the pandemic restricting our movements, once things get back to normal I want us both to slim down.

[TacosRAwesome]

As long as he doesn't spend all day on the couch doing nothing and is open to walking etc I'm not against it.

[TenkRealist]

Sure. But if they're morbidly unhealthy and refuse to change, I'll reconsider.

[clampfan101]

Any healthy weight is fine, even if a little overweight. But if she simply can’t/won’t try to stay at least decently healthy I’ll have to pass.

[Anonymous]

I love staying in shape too so I can’t see myself dating someone who is overweight

[moonpie89]

I wouldn't mind if they're at least open to doing some activities with me

[Pohjolan]

American overweight?

No.

French/Japanese overweight?

Maybe.

[Flower7]

No. That’s not sexy to me.

[DermalPunch]

I will say it. No not at all. Can't do it.

[NathanDavis]

okay

[Asker]

What about you?

[NathanDavis]

I do not have plans to marry, at the moment

[XXblack88]

Little overweight sure. Grossly overweight no