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I found out recently that my boyfriend and his ex were still sending each other pictures of NSFW fan art for the first month of our relationship then stopped because they realised it was inappropriate.

For context they were in a long distance relationship and used to send each other NSFW fan art all the time. They broke up when we started dating and she ghosted him for 2 weeks, then when they started talking and hanging out online again they started sending the pictures again.

It's been over a year since this happened and they stopped but they still hang out online together often. I only found out that they used to date recently and then I found out about the pictures and i feel hurt and a bit betrayed.

I want to know if what they did is considered cheating or if it was just really inappropriate.

I'm not sure what to do and having some clarity on this might help me figure it out.

After talking to my boyfriend about it I've forgiven him and he has agreed to stop spending time alone with her and only to talk to her when she's hanging out with our mutual friends but I feel like I should confront her because she kept this from me and befriended me while sending these pictures to my boyfriend and not telling me about their relationship.

If you guys dont consider it cheating then I'll let it go and try to move on but if you do consider it cheating then I feel like I have a right to bring it up despite it being in the past and at the very least demand an apology from her and at worse cut ties with her completely. This whole situation really pains me because I did like her as a friend.

I live in a studio apartment. It’s a room next to the landlords home. I have to pass by her backyard to enter & exit my studio. Things were great when she lived alone now her daughter around my age moved in permanently with her as she broke up with her boyfriend. She has 4 kids & now building a tiny studio for her. When the landlord isn’t home she is bringing her boyfriend same as I do. Our bfs arrive at the same time I assume after work, so it’s uncomfortable for boyfriend visit me now as they are outside always & weird to pass by them. It’s only easy for boyfriend visit me super late when they are asleep. It’s kinda weird two girls bringing bfs home. I miss my privacy i used to have alone with my boyfriend. Also the room they are building for her the door is right next to my door now when I enter. Even tho her boyfriend visits daily now or living here, and my boyfriend visits weekly only or every other week, it’s giving me more stress her boyfriend arrives same time mine does too. They have similar color car too which is weird and he steals my and his parking spots so we now have to park super far. I plan move out in 5-7 months but plan tell owner in 3 months I’ll be moving out. I have no kitchen, also I plan have baby this year, so I need a bigger place & windows & kitchen & be alone with boyfriend. Not live with other girl. Not live anymore in owners backyard but have a private place to live. Maybe a Duplex or real apartment. Now I kinda understand why landlords want to rent studios only to single men that work all day & no girls. Lol.

Like I don't understand. Why not just tell me to leave him alone if he doesn't want to be with me?