Hey guys me and my girlfriend did kinda fight yesterday?

[Breadman432]

So my girlfriend I see her with other guys she also texts and talks to them constantly and I’m like what about me to myself and I’m like how am I your boyfriend if u don’t even text me. We played games a few days ago and it all started right after those guys are all over her kissing her I’m like no I’m good. I got mad at her and said we should break up she said I’m toxic when all I did was say my point that I don’t want to be alone all the time when I fully give u everything and she said I don’t forgive u and that she needs alone time. Should I break it off rn thank u guys for listening.

[HollyK21]

If she can’t respect you and your relationship then yes, break it off. Here’s my thing with the situation— there’s nothing wrong with having male friends, especially the ones she had before getting into a relationship with you. However I think boundaries should be created once in a relationship. If she’s texting them all the time (and not you), they’re all over her and even kissing her and basically still behaving as a single woman then that’s disrespectful. If you had that sort of dynamic with several other women I could bet she wouldn’t like that. You can’t dictate her life or tell her what relationships to have, but things change once you’re exclusive to someone. I know they’re probably all used to their relationship with her working a certain way, and who knows maybe she doesn’t want to stop getting their attention. But if she can’t tell them to cool down a bit and justifies instead justifies their behavior then maybe she should be single rn and not having to consider a boyfriends opinion.

[HollyK21]

Oops, didn’t mean to put justifies twice lol

[MaazHussain]

Based on what you've shared, it sounds like there are some trust and communication issues in your relationship. Seeing your girlfriend with other guys and feeling neglected while she's constantly texting and talking to them is understandably hurtful and can lead to feelings of insecurity and mistrust. It's important to have open and honest communication with your partner about your feelings and concerns.

If you've already expressed your concerns to your girlfriend and she's not willing to work on the relationship or address your concerns, then it may be time to consider ending the relationship. It's not healthy to stay in a relationship where you feel neglected or disrespected, and it's important to prioritize your own well-being and happiness.

It's important to have a calm and respectful conversation with your girlfriend before making any decisions about the future of your relationship. Let her know how you feel and try to listen to her perspective as well. If the two of you are unable to come to a resolution, then it may be best to end the relationship and move on.

[Guy13]

I would be out anytime when someone will straight up say "I will not forgive you." She said that then I would be out. No one says it but yeah, we all think it and throw an A-Hole in that phrase. She said that verbally then I am out...

[ConfusedGinger21]

If you can't respect her space then yes break up with her.

[Breadman432]

Thanks and yeah trust is everything when I saw her with other guys and I thought they were just friends I think it’s more than that from what I seen so ye I will tell her later thank you.

[SnowedIn]

She already broke it off. Yes, end it. Neither of you is mature enough to be in a relationship.

[lightbulb27]

A friend that stabs you in the heart is not a friend, whether it's girl or boy.

[Dnice1]

I'd say break up with her. She shouldn't be letting other guys do that to her except you.

[Anonymous]

I think she is right.. no hard feelings

[Breadman432]

Right about what she basically wants to be with other guys like I barely see her if at all.