Search Results: am i good enough

Why do I act like this and can anyone else relate?

I keep pushing good people away and isolating myself a lot. I feel really low most of the time. I just try to hide it from my friends because I don't want to be a burden... the problem is I get so frustrated and angry...

DellBell

Xper 6 Age: 32

Dating

How do I convince my parents not to be miserable and disappointed that I don’t want to have a partner and children?

My parents are very conservative and they want to have grandchildren. But I’ve had such awful experiences with women (I am guilty of that too), that I don’t want to have a partner anymore. I just want to be alone and mind...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

How do I stop getting black out drunk as a coping method (I always end up in terrible situations)?

Basically I don’t work or drive or have any real friends at all, I stopped going to college bc of my mental health don’t have a boyfriend or any positive influences in my life I spend most of my time at the gym then I...

Brunettexoxo

Xper 5 Age: 26

Dating

I have too specific of a type which I’m not willing to compromise on. How do I approach the men I want?

I like non boring men and to me no boring men who don’t deeply appreciate the arts and are creative. I also only date men I find attractive physically meaning men who are taller than me with good faces. I don’t compromise...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Education & Career

Why was my manager so intent on kicking me out of my paid job?

I worked at a company for around six months before I got so sick of my manager bullying me so I left the company. During my time there my manager made my life a living hell. Nothing I did was ever right or good enough,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

When he says he doesn’t want a relationship ship and is in a relationship 3 months later with another girl?

I feel so sad and hurt because I was dating this guy for over a couple months and was so into him. It got to a point where I wanted to be exclusive and he wasn’t ready and in a further conversation told me that he wasn’t...

Daniellep1995

Xper 6 Age: 31

Entertainment & Arts

What are your favorite songs that start with an S?

My fav S songs : Sally’s song - from nightmare before Christmas lol (I like Amy Lee’s cover) Sarah Smiles - Panic! At the disco Satisfied - Hamilton soundtrack Shirim - Melodys Echo Chamber...

JustinTheGreat

Influencer Age: 28

Relationships

Girls, Losing hope on love, what to do?

I remember always being happy, but lately I been finding myself feeling very lonely, faking a smile, I have had such a bad experience with love, I am not anti social, I'm actually social but I do enjoy my alone time and I...

Guy82939499

Xper 1 Age: 29

Society & Politics

Are young people to concerned with politics and not concerned enough with partying?

when I was 18 or 21 all I wanted to do was get drunk, fuck chicks, go to the gym and have fun. I feel like young people are really obsessed with politics now, is this a good thing or a bad thing? I'll admit me and my...

Anonymous

(36-45)

when I was 18 or 21 all I wanted to do was get drunk, fuck chicks, go to the gym and have fun. I feel like young people are really obsessed with politics now, is this a good thing or a

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Relationships

Have you ever felt like you missed being in love?

Sometimes i find myself feeling lonely and sad, cause my life is passing by and i look at everyone who are sharing love together and caring about each other, it makes me feel that i missed these emotions, i'd like to...

TonyMetal___86

Guru Age: 40

Guy's Behavior

How to accept not being smart…? How to accept that he wants a high caliber woman?

Especially when you had feelings for someone who is smart and you felt you weren’t smart enough… and now he’s dating doctors etc … he also has a good 6 figure job and and he went to a good school…. He’s a software...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

No matter how hard you try in a relationship can you not be good enough?

I was deemed too boring, too good and because I didn't constantly go along with what she wanted and would speak my own ideas as well she didn't want to be in a relationship. She also didn't ever want to communicate cause...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Is the desire to be accepted in life asking for too much?

So I go about my day and sometimes I find myself falling into deep thoughts about events that unfolded in the past such as experiencing a breakup last year and I was devestated after the breakup and to the point where I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Agree or Disagree: Universal sufferage is one of the worst things to ever happen to mankind history?

From my point of view, it sounds good on paper, but the main problem is that it allows any ignorant individual or individuals who are willfully stupid to vote and have their votes matter just as much as those with real...

Anonymous

(30-35)

From my point of view, it sounds good on paper, but the main problem is that it allows any ignorant individual or individuals who are willfully stupid to vote and have their votes

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Dating

Do people actually find relationships?

I am 19 and have never had a relationship, and haven’t fallen in love. Someday when I hear about the list of requirements people want in a man I get frustrated that I’m not enough to fit in or be attractive. I’m not...

killake-ko

Xper 1 Age: 26

Education & Career

What was my managers problem with me?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Food & Beverage

Are there any healthy sugar free cakes I can eat for my birthday in Toronto? Dad is watching his sugar?

I suggested not getting a cake at all and just grabbing some sushi and a sugar free Tim Hortons latte. I have to guard a dementia patient at their medical appointment on my birthday so I told my cousin not to delivery...

jennifer_bloom

Master Age: 41

Relationships

My boyfriend says I make him feel small and like he's not good enough?

Background information: My boyfriend (33M) and I (29F) have been dating for about a year and a half. We were both previously in long term relationships - his was a 5 year long distance relationship and mine was a 4 year...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Education & Career

Jobs feel pointless now?

I’ve really been feeling this way since Covid times. Lots of people got laid off, a lot of people forced to comply with vaccines to keep their job, and it’s like all we do at jobs when it comes down to it is work to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Do guys know pretty bouquets from ugly ones?

I wonder if guys genuinely know what a good bouquet is vs a bad one. Like have you guys just not been exposed enough to them or is it for lack of care?

waterliliestxt

Xper 2 Age: 22