Search Results: like a guy with a girlfriend

Should I get rid of my boy bestfriend?

recently, I just started to notice that my boy best friend is acting strange whenever i talk about new guys im interested in. for example, the other day I showed him a picture of a guy that I’m talking to and he...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My friend has been lying to me and I don't know what to do?

My friend has a girlfriend and sometimes she would ask me to do tarot readings on a guy she liked. I felt obviously uncomfortable and started questioning her more. She still hasn't broken up with her fully but she told me...

Lalalove11

Xper 6 Age: 26

If a guy shows an intimate video of him and his girlfriend to his friends, is it because he’s proud of her and the way she looks?

Similar to a question I’ve previously posted. Do they understand how hurtful it is and is that their intention in showing it or is it just to show off?

strawberrybaby3

Xper 6 Age: 36

Guys, would you find it weird if your girlfriend/wife asks you to read a book to her?

Maybe because she likes hearing your voice, that is why she wants you to read to her. What do you guys think?

straightmax12

Xper 6 Age: 24

Family & Friends

Why do my friends keeps thinking I like my guy friend when I don’t?

So this guy friend I’ve known since 3rd grade and he had a crush on me starting in middle school. He’s always asked me to go to the dance with him and I told him no every time. I lot a guys didn’t want to go with me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why does my boyfriend never cry in front of me?

I know that it is difficult for guys to share feelings or cry. We can watch a sad movie, or anything and I will tear up. My guy who I love will never ever cry no matter what. He thinks that it will show a sign of...

debbiedenise

Yoda Age: 44

How do I deal with my coworker crush who asked if I’m jealous and then recently I saw his girlfriend in the flesh?

A guy at work once asked me twice in a row “are you jealous” when he told me he was texting his girlfriend at lunchtime. I didn’t answer. Then recently his girlfriend visited him at work and I am a cashier and had to...

CuuntCoock

Xper 1 Age: 83

Break up or not?

So I am in an exklusive dating with a guy who is 30 and I am 22. We ve been dating since October 2024. I feel like there are some issues between us and also there are some problems on my part that I feel like may...

Anonymous

(18-24)

So I am in an exklusive dating with a guy who is 30 and I am 22. We ve been dating since October 2024. I feel like there are some issues between us and also there are some problems

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Do you like this?

Here is what happened, I discovered a fight, and I discovered a woman and a few guys there, and I also got taught that when you keep on talking to boyfriends girlfriends the boyfriends will throw punches at you or worse...

Lidflipchampion

Xper 1 Age: 28

How would you respond if an old flame persistently accused you of being obsessed with another guy who’s only your friend?

I got a guy from University with whom I had a short relationship and from time to time he will reach out to me by posting questions on my question page. He said I was obsessed with one of my friends and that it was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

I need advice on my broken heart, because I don't know what to think?

This year I was supposed to have the greatest holidays ever as I was to spend IT with the guy I like. However, IT all got mixed up pretty badly. I caught the flu and was quite weak. Despite this, the guy convinced me to...

Insecure2

Xper 5 Age: 35

Do guys get turned off when they hear of their girlfriend’s issues?

I have severe anxiety and depression which I don’t speak much about to my boyfriend. My mom thinks it will turn him off and possibly dump me. My boyfriend and his mom both know I have anxiety and we’ve been together for...

Anastacia1989

Xper 6 Age: 36

I have severe anxiety and depression which I don’t speak much about to my boyfriend. My mom thinks it will turn him off and possibly dump me. My boyfriend and his mom both know I have

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Girl's Behavior

I’m 28, never had a girlfriend and just got my first out of college job, how should I confess feelings to a lifelong friend?

I just wanna start by saying that this woman is beautiful beyond words, like she has MANY MANY options. I fear she won’t want an inexperienced virgin guy such as myself. That said, I’ve known her for fourteen years and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Are men more insecure when the woman they are dating/married to makes more money then them or vice versa?

I went through this about 10 years ago. My then 25 year old girlfriend made more than me when I was 32. But at the time I was pursuing a dream (I was a professional athlete) and I my time was consumed with training. I was...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I went through this about 10 years ago. My then 25 year old girlfriend made more than me when I was 32. But at the time I was pursuing a dream (I was a professional athlete) and I my

I was doing freelance work just to pay the bills and I was struggling. She even offered me money at one time (which extremely kind of her) but it I turned it down out of pride and went further in debt.

Anyway the insecurity was on my side when it can to this (also contributed to our break up). She didn’t care but I did. It had a lot to with being raised to “be a man” when it came to being a breadwinner.

Nowadays I make a lot more money given I’m retired from my sport and have full focus on my career. But I am also a lot more “boring” now since I’m no longer the free wheeling adventurer I once was.

But money is a touchy issue. Form a evolutionary perspective I really do believe most women still subconsciously expect a man to provide for them even it’s unnecessary or impractical. They might get into short term flings with guys who offer other benefits (looks, excitement, adventurer, personality, etc) but when it comes to long term commitments they have a much higher bar on this

I also believe when a woman makes more money then her boyfriend/husband she’s more prone to cheating. Especially if she is comparable to him when it comes to looks (maybe she will stay loyal if she’s physically unattractive compared to him)

In fact I believe it’s unfairly more socially “acceptable” for a woman to do this given the guy is considered a “chump” if he is financial dependent on her. More more acceptable then vice versa.

I have a divorced uncle who worked a low paying his entire life and was supported by his (comparably) rich wife. She was no multi millionaire but she earned a lot more than him.

She ended up cheating on him the entire marriage. He tolerated it because they had kids and he needed support.

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Guy with ADHD matched with me, acted interested, and then told me he wasn’t going to text me or meet me. What are your thoughts?

We talked for three days. One night for most the night. Then all morning, one morning. He overshared everything. I thought we were really connecting. He hadn’t really dated in a while because of his ADHD and said many...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Holidays

Long distance girlfriend mom died on Christmas, she said she can't do New Years , I make other plans, now she says she can do New Years, what to do?

So my long distance girlfriend mom died on Christmas day, she was crying saying she can't come down for New Years. I'm like ok, then I start changing plans and my friend agrees to come with me to the party with the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, why would any guy want a wife or girlfriend, when they can just get the bennies?

@Surely I occasionally like a glass of milk, but I don't want the cow. I did the wife thing and the girlfriend thing. Trust me. Keep your options open.

PepperJackson

Xper 2 Age: 36

Am I wrong for wanting to find a good man for my friend?

My friend is 40 and single. And she’s a catch too. Kind hearted, very Christian, good head on her shoulders, has a good stable job, she’s a great cook, would give you the shirt off her back if you asked her for it and on...

Anonymous

(36-45)