Guy with ADHD matched with me, acted interested, and then told me he wasn’t going to text me or meet me. What are your thoughts?

[Anonymous]

We talked for three days. One night for most the night. Then all morning, one morning. He overshared everything. I thought we were really connecting. He hadn’t really dated in a while because of his ADHD and said many girls stopped talking to him because of it. I have autism so I get it. He also talked in third person which was odd.

I sent him my number. He said he didn’t want to lead me on. I said huh. He said he would not be meeting on the app. I said okay. Then he said he didn’t want to lead me on by texting and everything and he probably shouldn’t have been chatting me up on the app. I told him I was disappointed but understood. Then he said he wanted a woman in his life so was a Christian and only those were found in church. I corrected him by telling him I was a Christian and he didn’t need to be deciding who I was. He said to forgive him I was right he didn’t know me. Then he said the truth was he was kind of nervous because he also felt a connection and was drawn to me. But his last two girlfriends were not white. And he was never into white girls. He felt himself getting close to me and was like what was he doing. He didn’t want to lead me on.

It was stupid. I didn’t understand it. I unmatched him. What is your thoughts on this?

[Summeroflove]

I don’t know just pray for him and hope he finds someone. Be glad though that he didn’t lead you on or cowardly ghost you as many people do.

I would say as hard as it may be. Don’t be on dating apps a lot of people (not necessarily everyone) is either not serious. There for shits and giggles. There because they can’t get anyone in real life. The list goes on

[Anonymous]

Where's the problem?😆

[Anonymous]

Forget about him lol

[Opinion Owner]

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