I told this guy that I am looking for a relationship and it doesn't seem like he is so if that's the case then we should stop talking. He ignored the message and texted me a few days later as if I didn't say anything. Isn't that so disrespectful? Why would he return back with no intention of a relationship
He's fine with chatting with you. He gets something from that. But it sounds like he doesn't want anything more. He stopped texting because it appears he was shocked, took time off to think about it and pulled back.
His not responding to it on any level is his ignoring it as if you never said it. I'd be confrontative and say, "Why didn't you respond to what I said? If you're not interested, I guess we should stop talking. It's been nice knowing you."
Don't waste your time. There are loads of people out there... Keep looking and good luck.
It is possible that the guy may not have seen or fully understood your message, or he may have been unsure about his own feelings and intentions. However, ignoring your message and then continuing to text you as if nothing happened is not respectful behavior.
It is important to communicate your feelings and boundaries clearly and assertively, and to only engage in activities or relationships that feel safe and comfortable for you. If you are feeling disrespected or unsure about his intentions, it may be helpful to have a conversation with him and express your feelings and expectations clearly.
Remember, it is important to prioritize your own emotional well-being and to only engage in activities or relationships that feel safe and respectful for you. If you are feeling uncertain or uncomfortable, it may be helpful to seek support from a therapist or counselor, who can help you navigate this situation in a healthy and empowering way.
Ummm wow. That's beyond disrespectful. It's plain insulting! Does he think you're an idiot? Does he think, that you are unaware of what was said the other day? Does he think, that you think, that HE thinks that conversation didn't happen? Does he simply think you regret asking for the relationship... to the point that you'll agree to also pretend nothing was said, and settle for whatever you two are now?
Either way. What an asshole.
You can't be that serious if you are texting.
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He probably wants sex or a casual thing, he probably is avoiding that so he might still score the goods with you without commitment.
Absolutely you're right...
But you should ignore him if you need relationship
Don’t get played
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