What the hell is considered cheating?

[Anonymous]

I was with a guy, on our first date and he asked for a kiss.

We kissed.

Then he said "No further than kissing though cause I have a girlfriend and don't want to cheat on her".

I said "but you asked to kiss, that IS cheating".

And he said "Nah".

Obviously I kicked his ass out but I wanna know do other guys think this way?

[SamIam96]

What is considered cheating? That's easy. If he's concealing it from his girlfriend, it's cheating.

• Would he tell girlfriend that he gave you a newspaper? Probably. It's not cheating.
• Would he tell girlfriend that he was kissing another woman? Probably not. It's cheating.

If their relationship is open and she's ok with whatever he's done, it isn't cheating.

[SamIam96]

I forgot to ask. Is his girlfriend ok with him dating you? It would be surprising if she was. For most people, the date is cheating and the kiss is cheating.

[SamIam96]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Asker]

The girlfriend was far from ok with it. She found out and dumped him

[SamIam96]

I’m not surprised that she dumped him. He deserved it.

Have you seen him again?

[ohsheeT]

WTF. You should have said hold on let's go get your girlfriend and watch your kisses guy over here let's find out if it's cheating or not

I'm surprised he even has a girlfriend

[Apple1996]

You went on a date with a guy who had a girlfriend? That sounds like cheating even without the kiss

[Asker]

Obviously didn’t know he had a girlfriend till after the kissing then I kicked him out

[Nikki1989]

It is a real stretch to call kissing cheating.

[Summeroflove]

No that’s cheating romantically and emotionally. Never be witn someone cheating witn you. They will do the same to you

[molonski2]

A passionate kiss is not cheating , its pushing the boundaries a little sure , but he didn't take it any further and we don't know the actual status of his relationship / girlfriend.

[standardguy]

Real cheating includes something sexual. Either something that include physical contact like a kiss or a caress. Or the act of exposing sexual regions or asking for exposure of them

[Xoirwinkan]

Nah, that's gross. I'd say if you can't do it with your family it's cheating. You know a guy like that would jump on you if you had offered sex. Scumbag.

[Wise4myage]

Wise move on your part, and yes, some guys do think like that.

[PepperJackson]

I have to give him an E for effort. That's kind of clever.

[Anonymous]

Dude that's hilarious.😆

You know what cheating is.🤦‍♂️😆

[jahaims]

Anything you wouldn't do in front of your partner

[AnonAndrew]

That's definitely cheating.