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Just to make things clear, he never hurt me physically.

The outburts usually happen when he's stressed and lately it's almost every other day.

He gets really aggressive, he breaks things, he shouts and then nitpicks at various meaningless little things and then we argue and I just can't help it but feel small, weak. I sometimes cry and wonder if this is normal and whether I am just too sensitive

He has a strong voice so any louder than normal talk from him gets me nervous, when he shouts I almost tremble, get a shaky voice and can't keep on arguing more.

Do you think it's maybe just me overreacting? My father also is VERY hotheaded and aggressive and loud, he even used to hit me for various reasons.

We're both in our 30s. I did NOTHING to lead him on. When met in a professional blouse and dress pants.

He wanted to call us boyfriend and girlfriend on the first day we'd met in person... and we'd only communicated via internet for a week prior. For reference with his previous girl it took months for that label.

When I mentioned taking it slow he proceeded to overreact and go on about me running off, etc.

And there's other things. Like last week he'd be blowing up my phone and now I barely hear anything. Maybe because Sunday I would not answer what I wanted for a wedding. Or maybe because I wasn't interested in still chatting when late and get up early (and he knows this)