Search Results: being just a friend

Should I act on this crush I have on a younger guy, our maintenance guy?

Firstly, im in a terrible one sided and abusive relationship. My child’s father doesn’t want me, doesn’t touch me, zero attention for years now. I’m just his maid. So being a mom to a one year old with no support...

ashleighthelashtech

Xper 1 Age: 26

Who should make the first move?

Hi everyone ! So I was having a conversation with a friend of mine who's a guy and we got onto the topic of relationships since im in one and he's single. (No its not weird he's just a friend I've known him forever more...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Education & Career

Why do more men hide their achievements then women?

I went to a Chinese party with only one person my age there and he spent 2 hours talking about how his friends would gamble their money on websites and pretend to be mentally ill to get extensions on assignments. When we...

jennifer_bloom

Master Age: 41

Were can I find healthy, non toxic, stable friends?

I recently made a post about friendships being overrated and I still have mixed feelings on the matter. I'm a simple person and as much as I love drama I don't want it in my life or any fuckers dragging there own into my...

Puppystarfish23

Yoda Age: 28

Why do some girls and women always push guys or men that like them AWAY?

Like say this guy or man that’s liked a woman for YEARS but the lady doesn’t notice or pays any attention to them. They always chase after guys that are no good or don’t like them back. I understand they have no feelings...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it true that a guy will distance himself if he is obsessed with a girl? WHY?

A guy was hot and heavy with me for months and suddenly vanished. When he resurfaced he was chasing and trying to be in my life but I told him I didn't want someone who blows hot-and-cold to be in my life. Since then he's...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Fashion & Beauty

How can I make this dress look more elegant and sexy?

Hey everyone! I’m going to a friend’s wedding soon and I got this long one-piece fuchsia (hot pink) dress. I know the cut is a bit classic and not super trendy — but honestly, I couldn’t find the exact style I had in...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, How do you know when someone isn't going to marry you?

Been together for a while and he said that non of his needs are being met, he promised that we'd get married on my birthday which is coming up but when I started telling family and friends his demeanor towards everything...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Have you ever fainted/passed out?

I have twice. The first was when I was in my early teens I think. I had to get some blood work done and I can't remember how many samples they took, but it was a lot. I blacked out/fainted but I'm not sure if it was from...

AndrésC64

Yoda Age: 62

What shall I do with this woman?

There is a young woman I have knew for a few years, but that I have barely meet. We generally meet at certain events during the summer by accident. Last year she started to show signs of wanting to get to know me better,...

es20490446e

Master Age: 38

Why would this girl lie about not “talking to” the guy I used to talk to… just to find out they’re getting divorced?

I recently found out that a Nigerian guy I used to talk to was actually married the whole time. I saw online that he’s now filing for divorce, and it turns out it’s from the same woman I had previously come across—she...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Of the years you have existed on the planet (earth) what years were the most happy and most productive?

For me from the age of 19 through the present day. Nineteen being my first real 'romance' relationship, where I had the friendship of both her mother and her father, and her younger brother... very good, nice memories...

Bricealan

Master Age: 45

Would you date someone that wouldn’t give you the time of day when you were obese/overweight?

I had a crush in high school and I was obsessed with him for years. Years! I dreamed that he was my boyfriend and the love of my life. Unfortunately he was so mean to me and my special needs friends. My friends didn’t...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why does this dynamic happen to me often?

Guy expresses interest in me first >>> Tells me that he’s not interested in pursuing a relationship with me >>> I back off in an attempt to move on and protect my feelings >>> Guy insists on being or staying friends

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, What does it mean when a guy privately messages you a complement?

So, there is this guy in my friend circles, he never tried to talk to me he will only talk if I am near and it’s very causal and short. In a group chat for prayers, after I lead he messaged me hours after that day ‘well...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Society & Politics

Was I in the wrong?

I go on meta horizon worlds and I was overhearing a guy asking these two people that were their 40s if they were dating (the guy asking was white) and these two people were poc. And apparently the guy said "why you being...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to deal with a toxic person when you can't cut them off completely?

I'm 25f and I had a "friend" that is toxic and I want to completely cut out of my life. we started off as friends, gotten really close over the past few months, ended up having casual sex a few times, we'd hung out 2-4...

Alexa18

Xper 1 Age: 27