Should I act on this crush I have on a younger guy, our maintenance guy?

[ashleighthelashtech]

Firstly, im in a terrible one sided and abusive relationship. My child’s father doesn’t want me, doesn’t touch me, zero attention for years now. I’m just his maid.

So being a mom to a one year old with no support or love from my partner, I started crushing on the guy who cleans our yard.

he comes twice a month and I probably see him once every 2nd month.

well today , he started talking to me & I asked him (&his buddy) to come into our home after they finished cleaning since we were talking so long and it was cold outside. He kept the conversation going , like really fishing for a conversation I wasn’t sure why. We spoke about the Lord. But if that wasn’t the topic I would assume that he wanted me. Could he? While speaking about God & church? He did say I seem like I can be naughty about twice (when i mentioned my child’s father and I were inlove and moved in at a young age) . If the friend wasn’t with him I’d have been so tempted to show him.

he's 21. I’m 25. I haven’t been touched by a man in years. My child’s father only penetrates for a minute or two every 2-3rd month and I have a high libido I feel really sad about being loyal with no sex or intimacy.

should I seduce this guy & how do I find out if he wants me or even finds me attractive.

[SueShe]

If I get you correctly, you want to start a romance with a person you barely know just because he had a chat with you, is that correct?

You see that guy for something like 6 times a year for a few minutes and that is enough for you to want to fornicate with him?

Girl, have a little self-esteem and dignity and don't "sell" your body to the first one that chats with you and shows some interest.

Of course he will want to get in your pants if you are so obvious about wanting attention. And what will happen after you are no longer a novelty to him and he drops you or possibly gets you pregnant?

I think you should not let yourself be pulled into something so shallow.

[ashleighthelashtech]

I’m okay with just something physical, i won’t allow myself to get pregnant. I’ve been a good girl for so long and it never works out in my favour. I’m ready to just give my body a good time

[Anonymous]

At 21, a man is still more or less a child.

[ashleighthelashtech]

Thing is I just want to have fun sex for once. I committed to someone who would rather jerk off than touch me.

[ambitious_male]

I feel bad for you. You want fun sex with the guy you are committed?

[Bklynbadboy12]

Wow! I'm sorry your going through that. Why dont you leave him. Its not good for your daughter to see you being treated this way. You dont want her to think this is how a man should treat her.

[ashleighthelashtech]

thank you for the advice

[Bklynbadboy12]

Your so welcome if you need someone to talk to im here for you just hit me up

[Kaneki05]

Sounds less of a crush but more lust as the whom don't seem to matter that much. I mean depending how much ya care could do both. Though if you really want one go for that one.

[bowenw]

Keep talking with him and try flirting a little to see how he reacts. You have nothing to lose as your marriage appears to already be over.

[capriVib]

U, divorce your husband, then sleep with someone else

[spartan55]

Talking about God and church as you are planning on being a gross cheatin slut. Ironic.

[Summeroflove]

Well you’re married

[Summeroflove]

DM me

[ashleighthelashtech]

No actually I’ve been a wifey to an ungrateful man who won’t marry me because he has mommy issues

[Summeroflove]

Yikes

[Summeroflove]

Yeah just shoot me a message. You seem like you have a story and I want to ask you a few things

[Summeroflove]

Just seems like a shitty miserable situation that you feel stuck in. But having kids together makes it a lot harder. It’s easier said then done to give advice.

But I’m willing to listen and help you get things off your chest for a while.

[ashleighthelashtech]

Nope

[Summeroflove]

No what

[In_Trance]

You're not crushing you're just thirsty