Search Results: how can i get back at my boyfriend

Did I do the right thing by leaving him at a vulnerable time?

My boyfriend has been so distant for months. I know his mental health is heavily affected by the issues in his life and I sympathize with him. I want to be there for him but his behavior is the reason I have started to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Was it a good reason to break up?

My boyfriend (26) and me (20) were about to have a date night, I was scrolling on the social media then saw a post of one of his female friends, they had matching display name, I got curious and looked at her profile to...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

Is she a fake friend?

She asked if we could be friends but she never texts me. I don't understand why she asked me to be her friend if she's never going to contact me. She does have autism so I'm not sure how much of that is affecting her. But...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend doesn’t trust me for sharing our business with friends? How do I fix it?

I have been honest with him about everything. We argued a lot about petty things and one day we broke up and I genuinely assumed we were done for good. While me and him were broken up I went on a date with a guy I used to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Do you think he’s using it as an excuse to get back together with me?

Long story short, my boyfriend and I were together almost a year, and then he suddenly ended things with me Over something very small. He has always had horrible mood swings, and will fly into a rage over the tiniest...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He won’t return my belongings and doesn’t want to see me?

I broke up with my boyfriend two weeks ago and we got into a heated argument last week and two days ago as well. When I asked for him to return my belongings he refused and see he doesn’t want to see me and he doesn’t...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Am I overreacting?

I met him around Christmas time from my sister. He seemed like a nice guy at first for a minute but as I got to know him things changed. I can't remember when this started but I remember we were playing a game the month...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Is my family making a huge thing out of my love life?

So my family is really religious in the Christian faith. I am 27 and just moved back to my mom's house after my dad passed away. I've been going to church for a few years. There is this guy I've liked for a few months...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Is it normal to hate someone so much you wish them dead?

I'm atheist and don't believe in forgiving everyone, esp if they're unremorseful and the damage they did was major. I really hate my first ex boyfriend. He destroyed me psychologically and ruined my trust in people. If I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Boyfriend (38m) dumped me (30f) because of my PTSD. I feel horrible and that there is no hope for me. Does anyone have any advice?

I met him online and we hit it off very quickly and started spending a lot of time together at my apartment. I live by myself now, but previously lived with my father, who was a heavy drinker. If he came home and things...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why did my boyfriends baby mama tell him yes then no?

So randomly my boyfriends baby mama contacts him and asks him if he would be interested in taking their child to get dedicated at his church. He agreed then called her and said that it was gonna be on a certain day. She...

salew1111

Xper 2 Age: 23

Guy's Behavior

When my boyfriend worked he used to text me the first couple of months, work has got busier for him at the moment, is this normal?

Been with my boyfriend nearly 5 months now when we first started we used text on and off the first couple of months and now he can go 24 hours without contact, he works for an airline I have had a lot going on the last 15...

Emily1975

Xper 1 Age: 48

Any interpretation on this?

Me (28F) and my boyfriend (34M) recently just took a month break from our relationship We wanted to contemplate if we wanted to continue the relationship. We have been together for 4 years, and lived together for one....

Anonymous

(30-35)

What should I do if my boyfriend take revenge on me for what I did to him?

Boyfriend is mad at me for disappearing in days, i didn't answer his call or reply to his message cause he made me upset with what he said about me. He was just putting me down a lot.. Now he is planning for a revenge, he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does my boyfriend lack a sense of humor or should I give it more time?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months, but we rarely laugh together. We only laughed together like one time. I'm usually a funny person, I joke around with my friends and my family, and we all laugh together....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is this controlling behaviour?

me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months now and in the last couple months there have been things that are making me feel a bit weary of some of his behaviour. Simple things like telling me I wasn’t listening...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Ex said she still has for ex?

My former girlfriend of over 8 months broke up with me recently. Yesterday we met to talk about things and she revealed that she wasn't over her ex, and she felt guilty about not being all in with me. Her last...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Were your parents supportive when you went through your first break up?

I was 17 going on 18. So I was a senior in high school. I had my first boyfriend which most of my family didn’t accept because he is latino. Some family didn’t care what race he is. I’m white. so we dated for about two...

AutisticLonelyWoman

Xper 4 Age: 23