Do you think he’s using it as an excuse to get back together with me?

[Anonymous]

Long story short, my boyfriend and I were together almost a year, and then he suddenly ended things with me Over something very small. He has always had horrible mood swings, and will fly into a rage over the tiniest thing. Then he’ll usually say he’s done with me, ghost me for a week, but then pop back into the picture like nothing ever happened. He broke up with me last month and about a week later went out of state with his daughter for a month-long vacation. The day before he broke up with me, he had given me some money to fix my car, which I didn’t request. He insisted I take it. I texted him while he was on vacation to say that I didn’t feel comfortable keeping the money now that he was broken up with me and I wanted to pay him back. Didn’t hear from him for a month and then suddenly last night he texts me out of the blue. He said if I wanted to pay him back that I could come over when he’s at home. He has one of those money transfer apps. So he could’ve just given me his username on there and I could send him the money through the app. Or I could’ve just mailed him the money. So I’m thinking the fact that he’s inviting me over is a way for him to Get me back into his life without damaging his ego and him having to admit that he made a mistake by flying into a rage again. I’m sure he’s probably hooked up with a couple of women since he last saw me and probably realizes what a mistake he made, because he usually picks women that turn his life into a living hell… cheating, property damage, etc. Or maybe I’m reading too much into him, inviting me over.

[teamvic]

He could be he seems the type to be toxic and try to keep stringing you along. But trying to have you come over tells me he's probably just tryna fuck you🤔

If I were you just pay him online and then be done with him cause you're just wasting your time

[Asker]

I don’t have his username though to transfer him the money… he would have to tell me what his screen name is on there

[teamvic]

Just tell him to give you it and you don't want to go over

[236color]

He could be inviting you over so he can kill you. Tell to use the money transfer app or do without and never talk to him again. These guys don't get better, consider yourself VERY lucky to be rid of him.

[spartan55]

Lol. He wants, to fuck