He won’t return my belongings and doesn’t want to see me?

[Anonymous]

I broke up with my boyfriend two weeks ago and we got into a heated argument last week and two days ago as well. When I asked for him to return my belongings he refused and see he doesn’t want to see me and he doesn’t need to see me anymore. What does this mean and how can I get my stuff back because he has a lot of my valuable belongings with him.

Updates

9 mo

He also blocked me off everything so now I have no way of getting those valuable things back.

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9 mo

And said he doesn’t want to see me*

[Daniela1982]

Talk to the police. He can't not return your things or it is theft.

[Asker]

The question is, why does he want to keep them in his possession

[Asker]

I can not comprehend

[Asker]

Oh no for sure I’ll be getting cops involved.

[BigDog1989]

Well you could sue him buttttt, you'd likely lose.

And because ex's can't be "just friends". IT DOESN'T WORK!

[Daniela1982]

He is not an "Ex", just a boyfriend.

[BigDog1989]

@Daniela1982 If it's a boyfriend, it's an ex hun

[Daniela1982]

No it's not. A boyfriend could just mean a boy who is your friend too. And there is the fact that unless there is a ring and piece of paper you are more or less room mates and you have certain rights as far as your possessions are concerned. When you move out you have so much time to retrieve your possessions, usually 30 days. After that time they are forfeited.

[BigDog1989]

@Daniela1982 No, a boyfriend, IS A BOYFRIEND, HE'S AN EX

The way you're saying it, is that every one of your "guy" friends, you claim you have, are all "boyfriends"

Which would make you, a player

[Daniela1982]

You talk like you've been in the bottle again. But looking at the definition, we are both right.
boyfriend
noun
boy·​friend ˈbȯi-ˌfrend
Synonyms of boyfriend
1
: a male friend
2
: a frequent or regular male companion in a romantic or sexual relationship

[BigDog1989]

@Daniela1982 THATS THE POINT