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Women don’t really deserve them nor do they even want one.

I’m a good guy and I’ve been always been single. It’s almost like girls don’t care I exist.

Sure it’s hard to meet new people. I also have no bad physical or personality characteristics that are obvious upon meeting me. I look good.

I've been talking with this girl for about a year and we're finally going to meet in person next month. I know she likes vintage photography, and specifically 3D photography, so I want to buy her a camera, because I know she doesn't have one. We started as friends and have become more romantic with time.

Here's the problem; the right camera, the one she actually wants, is about $250-300. I can get a comparable camera for $50, but it's not exactly the right thing; it's kind of a starter camera into the style of photography she enjoys. Brands matter enough in a situation like this that I don't really want to compromise. I have enough money that I could spend the extra money without issue.

Now... I personally don't care about spending $300, but I know that a woman could easily see a gift like that as me trying to buy her affection. Buying the cheaper camera is nice and symbolic, but the fact it isn't exactly what she wants might make the whole thing counter productive.

Is buying her a gift on our first meeting a bad idea?

Like any guy can find a good girl but it’s hard and takes a huge amount of patience with meeting new people. Without a defeatist mindset. No guy is actually a complete reject unless he is sensitive to his experiences.

Like I’ve never had a girlfriend. But that’s okay, I have faith I’ll find a good, amazing girl one day. But wild, modern women aren’t for me. I also have never looked for sex even though I’ve had the odd girl that wanted me like that and had to pass.

Patience is key 🔑 and improving oneself, slow and steady always wins the race.

For men, one of the mysteries of life is why so many ladies spend half of their time making sure that their panties and bra match, and they spend the other half of their time making sure that no one else sees their panties and bra!

I know that there are girls who run home, change their clothes and drag a brush through their hair, and then they are back out the door in 10 minutes. But some ladies spend hours showering, doing their hair, their nails, fretting over which outfit to wear, etc. There are A FEW guys who will not only notice all of that but will comment on it, but MOST guys won't notice, so. . . when you are getting ready and fussing over which pair of earrings to wear, do you realize that the guy you are meeting probably won't notice, and if he does notice, he probably won't care?