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Okay ladies, if you’re married to your husband with two kids at the time, they are very young, like one is 3 and the other is 5 years old, and y'all also have a puppy. There is a hurricane coming that’s been said and told on the news to be prepared and leave as soon as possible since it’ll be in category 5. So, you and your husband prepared to leave with your kids, but in this scenario, there is the husband's cousin who is into voodoo like a voodoo witch or something like that, but the dad doesn’t mess with her like that. The husband wants to go with his wife and kids together so that when the hurricane comes, they all leave together as one as a family, but the wife made the choice to leave her husband with the two kids and go with his cousin and leave the city in the midst of the hurricane approaching. The husband/dad alone with the puppy is alone and has to survive somewhere to get to higher ground.

Now ladies, do you think it is right for a woman to do this, as she calls it “thinking about her two children,” but leave her husband behind?

Ladies, would you do this to your husband and leave him with the kids to flee off with his cousin or stick by your husband to leave together as a family since that’s what a marriage and family are supposed to do?

People seem to have this mentality that if they don't agree with you or like you, they just cut you out, whether that means to fire you from a job, distance themselves from you completely, and even alienate you from the family.

What the fuck is wrong with people? Why can't people just agree to disagree and form a compromise to conflicts?

It used to be that you had to do something egregious and completely out of line to be alienated or estranged. Now, it is something as simple as a disagreement about politics, an argument, or not liking features of one's personality.

One is just pointing out that 'hey what you said wasn't cool' as opposed to 'wow you're an a'hole!'

What do you think? am i wrong?

One is just pointing out the thing they said wasn't something you liked and the other is attacking their character.

A little more background. He has some mental issues of some sort, but he has tried to “date” my niece when she was a minor and he was mid 30s.
His family thinks he’s harmless and pretty much enables him to do what he wants so they don’t have to deal with it, but I feel it’s really a matter of time before he says something or does something to the wrong person and ends up in trouble or worse.
He was also recently terminated from his job for sexual harassment and misconduct, but has still been prowling and creeping around younger females.