Search Results: how to talk to the guy you like

How shallow is a woman who talks about all the work she has or will have done?

I was at the neighborhood pool and this woman kept yapping about all sorts of cringe things. Her mother barely said a word and mostly listened. I think she said she was 40 or was about to turn 40. She was talking about...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I tried to flirt with my male colleague?

I work with this guy. Initially we didn’t spend a lot of time together because our desks weren’t close together but recently we’re having our workplace renovated so we’ve been forcefully sitting near each other a lot....

Anonymous

(25-29)

I tried awkwardly flirting with my colleague?

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I get my friend out of the 1950’s dating mindset?

She’s 41 and single, and it’s got nothing to do with her looks at all. It’s because she has a very outdated approach to dating that barely even worked 20 years ago. She turns guys heads everywhere she goes and makes eye...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, My sister suggested I block a guy as I haven't heard from him in three days?

I don't really like blocking but I haven't met him. We talked a bit and kind of out of nowhere he hasn't texted in three days I have initiated contact once before. Is It worth trying. Or.. has he just found someone else...

Lalalove11

Xper 6 Age: 26

Why am I blocked?

So a lot of people from school have me blocked but i genuinely have no idea! Me as a person I do have a bit of staring problem but it’s not bad it’s just I hold eye contact a lot..! Im kind of loud and I have a very...

Anonymous

(Under 18)

I’m a stalker and I don’t know how to stop stalking this guy I went on a date with 2 years ago?

I feel like he hurt me and tried to use me after making me feel safe… he ended up ghosting me…but he eventually gave me closure but it wasn’t enough for a year I was very depressed and then it turned to anger… so I took...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to stop being mean/ evil to every man I talk to due to past hurt?

I was hurt in the past by a couple guys but the last one hurt the most… it feels overwhelming talking to men because I feel scared of them hurting me so being mean is my coping mechanism but I don’t know when to turn it off

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I just block him at this point?

I had a guy friend that turned into friends with benefits. I ended up catching feelings and I finally admitted to him. I definitely wasn't planning on that happening. He doesn't feel the same but said he's willing to stay...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Why does it seem like it is so hard to connect and make friends?

Ever since my friends moved away in 2019, I have not made any friends. Maybe except 1, who I don't talk to anyone. He wasn't a good friend and it taught me a lesson that I should never be close friends with anyone who is...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why would this girl lie about not “talking to” the guy I used to talk to… just to find out they’re getting divorced?

I recently found out that a Nigerian guy I used to talk to was actually married the whole time. I saw online that he’s now filing for divorce, and it turns out it’s from the same woman I had previously come across—she...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Was I being rude and disrespectful to my girlfriend?

I was picking my girlfriend up at here apartment building for dinner and I pulled up to the front of her building and parked by to front door to wait for her. It usually takes her about 5 minutes to come down stairs as...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What are crushes like for men?

What are crushes like for men? Like, for women, it makes you do dumb things like constantly checking if someone is online, checking to see if they watched our stories, wanting to talk about them all the time, coming...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

How Do You Deal With Your Extremely Attractive Boyfriend/ Partner Getting Too Much Attention?

Sooooooo, I know this is a really stupid question, I’m not gonna lie, but I just wanna hear others’ takes on their attractive partners and how they deal with the excess/ unwanted attention their partner’s receive. Lately,...

LollyLita

Xper 1 Age: 17

Relationships

Why would my friends hook me up with a fat guy just because I’m an overweight girl?

I have never had a boyfriend in my life. Guys would NOT look my way or give me the time of day. Guys I like always liked the slimmer or fit girls. It’s always the cute, hot girls that get the guys. My friends are shorter...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would you date someone that wouldn’t give you the time of day when you were obese/overweight?

I had a crush in high school and I was obsessed with him for years. Years! I dreamed that he was my boyfriend and the love of my life. Unfortunately he was so mean to me and my special needs friends. My friends didn’t...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, What does it mean when a guy privately messages you a complement?

So, there is this guy in my friend circles, he never tried to talk to me he will only talk if I am near and it’s very causal and short. In a group chat for prayers, after I lead he messaged me hours after that day ‘well...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How to deal with a toxic person when you can't cut them off completely?

I'm 25f and I had a "friend" that is toxic and I want to completely cut out of my life. we started off as friends, gotten really close over the past few months, ended up having casual sex a few times, we'd hung out 2-4...

Alexa18

Xper 1 Age: 27