Search Results: should i apologize

Yes, I am a dinosaur but I am not opposed to technology. I have a smart phone (iPhone 11) and I know how to use it. However, I think we should be the master of technology and not a slave to technology. These kids are addicts! They CAN'T LIVE without their phones.

They could be talking to each other but they'd rather be engrossed in their cell phones. When they decide they want a date with a girl, they won't talk to her in person or even talk on the phone; instead, they'll send her a text. And when she wants to break up with him, no actual conversation; she'll just send a text. And then they'll ask "why don't I ever feel connected to anyone?" without realizing that they have eliminated the activities that make people feel connected.

Is this what kids do in your part of the world? (G@G only gives me 7 options in a poll, so I apologize for those who don't live in Europe, Asia, or South America.)

I have her phone number (we have not called or texted since we have exchanged numbers back in 2019), but I have not been "allowed" to follow her on social media ever even since my three-month-and-counting social-media detox, but the blocking traces back to November.

Okay for all of the ignoramuses out there, it is not "technically" a letter, but it's a really, really long text sized at 2 kilobytes (that's about 2000 characters long!). The reason why I'm asking anonymously is because I don't want anybody tracking me down.

I have done so many things in the past to embarrass my co-worker. I will not go into detail for privacy reasons, but she blocked me on social media before I started constantly talking about her on my platforms.

Even before I followed her on social media, I would occasionally like her posts or watch her stories and she wouldn't mind.

The problem is I don't know how she will react. I have searched up similar results about apologizing to a girl after being blocked on social media and those have returned zero precise results for me.

I need to know because I am very curious and I do not want to get a restraining order for apologizing over text, which is the main reason why I saved my text as a DRAFT.

"That's understandable, however a first thing you should avoid falling into, is refraining from falling into the attitude of "it's women's fault", or you won't get anything, because this approach is repulsive, for this reason: you don't offer anything on the table, but only expect to have the "debt" refilled by women who actually don't even know you and are not responsible for the rest of their gender. It's really repulsive to have the feeling to owe something to a random guy, and so are the perceived expectations, for the same reasons: if you give too much, or invest too much, and they're not responding with the same, then you're showing what are your expectations and how much they "owe" to you. And they will escape. So never overdo, never overgive, don't appear desperate and cluelessly offering your money, time and attention, when it's not reciprocated readily.
A lot of guys manage to have relationships, even being not really attractive physically, while others who are good looking keep failing. Why? Because they emit some bad vibes through their behaviours. This thing of women liking bad guys is not because they're bad, but because they're not "granted" to them, and prove to be well off alone, without them, and so they look like being more valuable, with much more to offer, quite "independent". While being granted to them, saying sorry for random things, asking consent for things that generally don't really require it, apologizing for taking their time (oh my god), giving them the literal option to not reply to x y z, etc. Anything that puts you in a secondary role and granted to them, is potentially a turn off. Nobody wants to start anything with someone who indirectly shows to need more than what he can offer (and actually it's valid also for men, about women who behave like that)"