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I’ve been hearing people that are very much against piercing babies ears, even calling it “child abuse” and saying that it’s nonconsensual. Personally, I don’t really see the big deal with it? I think it’s cute and harmless, and I’ve never heard a woman complain about it and say that they regret that their parents got her ears pierced.
I’m also wondering if this is a cultural thing, as I am half African and it’s normalized in our culture.

Before you call me a heartless parent let me explain. In Singapore raising a child is no longer meant for people with low or average income, as for me my salary is less than $1.5k, if I really want one child I had to marry a man who earns around $3k per month. That’s because I also have to pay $1k to hire a nanny to take care of the baby, if I were to marry a guy with the same income as me and have a child basically our lives will be very miserable because there won’t be enough money to raise a child. I also wouldn’t want my parents to raise my child since they already had a hard time raising me due to financial issues, no way will I want my parents to go through that again.