Help me figure out this dudes emotions lol?

[Ayyye]

So I have a fuck buddy. Great guy. Super nice. 10/10 would have his babies 😂😂 I've brought up dating a couple times and he always says he cheated in past relationship and doesn't trust himself. Im like cool, thats fine, no big deal, Ill just enjoy the benefits lol. BUT then he spends all day texting me, asking me whats Im doing, if I want to just hangout, offering help if I need it, just being overly nice. He does things like he made a song and calls it our song. Which I've expressed is weird of we aren't dating lol He showed up at my house today with lunch and coffee for no reason. Like. What does he want from me 😂😂

[TommyMountainFigure]

It sounds like he wants what he's getting, but he likes the idea of having to chase you a bit. Once he has you as his? He will lose interest.

Not saying he's right or wrong, just that's how I perceive it from what you've said.

[Ayyye]

That does make a lot of sense !!

[TommyMountainFigure]

There is something else I thought of too. If he is tied down to one person, he sounds the type to get itchy feet and that's why he cheats. The fact he can go sleep with anyone? means he doesn't want to..

[Ayyye]

But then he goes on about he's only sleeping with me and only has interest sleeping with me for a while and Im like 😅😅 I feel like he's purposely making this as confusing as possible

[TommyMountainFigure]

Its the 'wanting what you cannot have, and not wanting what you can' scenario. Seriously, if you said to him you didn't want him sleeping wit other women, he would feel compelled to do so, but because you are saying to him sleep with who you want.. he doesn't want to.

[Ayyye]

Shout out to you. That makes a lot of sense. Thank you 🙌

[TommyMountainFigure]

You're welcome.

[spartan55]

He wants to fuck... he told you that.

[In_Trance]

he's getting what he wants from you; the P

[Ayyye]

But he knows he can get that without all the extra bullshit so its confusing 😂

[In_Trance]

I think he disagrees. He's railing you and that's all that matters